As Soon As Her Boyfriend Found Out That She Had Photos Of Her Ex Still On Social Media, He Dumped Her On The Spot

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SasaStock - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purpose only, not the actual person

A young woman broke up with her long-term boyfriend in April after spending 5 years of her life with him.

In the year leading up to their breakup, things between her and him were not going well at all. She tried her best to make it all work out with him, but then she got to the point where she was really just done.

So, they split up, and now he’s her ex. She and her ex did purchase a house together, but he moved out when they broke up while she remained in the place.

“My ex and I have a mortgage together and have been slowly dealing with it,” she explained. “I paid for the down payment and all of the mortgage payments, but I needed him to get accepted for the mortgage, so it complicates things now in the breakup.”

A couple of weeks post-breakup, she organized meeting up with a guy she met on social media so they could make some music.

She never intended for this to be a date, though that’s what ended up happening. As soon as she met this guy in real life, the sparks flew, and she has never felt that kind of an intense connection with a guy ever before in her life.

She was really upfront with her new flame about how she still had a mortgage with her ex, so it was a bit complex.

This new guy didn’t care about that at all, and they decided to begin seeing one another seriously.

“I have a history of being distant and guarded, and it was something in my past relationships that ended up being detrimental,” she said.

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“I never let people get close to me. I really dove head first into this and fell really hard. He is the first boyfriend I’ve ever told I loved first, and he’s the only person I’ve had feelings for like this. We’ve been dating since June, officially.”

5 days ago, her new boyfriend asked her a question out of the blue and he wanted to know if she still had photos of her ex on social media.

She didn’t lie or try to hide it; she admitted that she did have photos of her ex still on public display. She insisted that it had never occurred to her to take the photos down since she is rarely on social media.

Well, that reason wasn’t good enough for her boyfriend, and he dumped her on the spot.

“He instantly told me he was done and blocked me from everything,” she continued. “No conversation, no warning. He said he wants a blank slate and that he’s done with me forever…I hate that he felt like there was a comparison, everything has happened quickly with us, and I never intended to keep up the photos anyway.”

She’s left wondering if he really was so upset about the photos or if there might be more to it than that. Do you think this was just an excuse for him to end things with her, and perhaps he wasn’t as invested in their relationship?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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