“My fiancé has concocted a story about shopping for and buying the ring as a cover-up that he keeps telling me, our friends, and members of my family. He does not know I know,” she revealed.
So now, she has been left extremely hurt and confused. She knows that her fiancé is a practical and frugal person. So, she has been wondering if he did not want to spend money on a “new” ring.
Nonetheless, they are also very financially stable right now and could very easily afford a modest ring.
Plus, she is just most upset that her fiancé would start their lifelong commitment with a blatant lie.
“I feel really hurt and sad he would lie to me about the ring. It makes me sad when my friends ask me about the ring, and I feel like I cannot tell the truth and have to hide how I really feel about it,” she said.
On top of all of that, she now has no idea how to handle this situation. She is not sure if she should confront her fiancé and risk conflict overshadowing their engagement or just take the truth about the ring to the grave.
Do you think she should talk to her fiancé about the ring? Would you be worried if your fiancé started your engagement with a lie? What would you do in this situation?
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