Her Husband Just Revealed To Her That He Had A Daughter From A One-Night Stand, And She Feels That He Just Ruined Her Life With This Information
A 35-year-old woman has been married to her 42-year-old husband for 4 years, but they have been together for a total of 7 years.
Before she met her husband, he had dated his sweetheart in high school for 14 long years before she sadly passed away.
When her husband’s high school sweetheart passed, he never dated another woman until she entered his life.
Anyway, after she and her husband celebrated 3 years of marriage, he stopped being the same person she had fallen in love with.
He became severely addicted to alcohol, he lost his job, and he stopped speaking to nearly his entire family.
He woke up and was a different person seemingly overnight, as he previously was outgoing, grounded in reality, and had a great connection to his loved ones.
She did her best to help her husband turn his life back around by getting him help for his alcoholism, and he picked up the pieces of his life and was able to do better for himself.
Her husband then found a different job making more money than the one he had lost, and things began looking up.
A week ago, she came home from work, and as soon as she walked through the door, she could hear her husband sobbing incredibly hard.
Andrey Kiselev – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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Her heart dropped, and she rushed to find him. When she did find him and saw him having what appeared to be a breakdown, she thought someone had died.
It took her husband close to half an hour to calm down enough to tell her what was wrong, and when he did, she was blindsided.
“He reminded me of the third year of our marriage when he started drinking and fighting with everybody,” she explained.
“I said what about it, and he told me that he had a one-night stand around the time of his brother’s wedding and got the woman pregnant. I was stunned, completely stunned.”
“He said that every single one of the family knew, and they pressured him to “do the right thing” and be a dad for this child, but he refused. As a result, his family fought with him, but the woman still kept the baby, which was a girl, but she died at the age of 5 months due to health problems.”
When her husband’s family found out that her husband’s daughter had died, they freaked out on him, and that’s what caused his drinking to spiral out of control, leading him into a deep depression.
Her husband admitted that he felt really guilty about his daughter dying, and he also felt terrible that he had rejected his daughter too.
Her husband then said that he had been to see his daughter several times before she passed away, and he had even held her in his arms.
Her husband had considered being there for his daughter, but the only thing that stopped him from doing that was her.
He was terrified that if she found out about his daughter, she would leave him. After her husband got all of this off his chest, she sat down beside him and didn’t know what to even say to him.
“He started crying, saying that he was sorry and that he made a mistake, but his daughter meant something to him, and he just couldn’t hide it anymore,” she said.
“He said that I can decide to leave if I want, but he was done hiding how he feels about losing his flesh and blood. I still didn’t know what to say. I kept thinking about how my life just got ruined; I mean,..we were just discussing the possibility of starting to try for a baby.”
“This was not something I’d see coming in a million years. He wants us to move past his infidelity because he got his punishment by losing his daughter.”
She immediately packed a couple of things and left to spend time with her mom. It’s since been days since her husband revealed that he cheated on her and had a daughter too, and she still can’t wrap her mind around it all.
She’s not sure what to do, and she also has not let her family know about this.
Do you think she should leave him, or is there a chance of fixing things?
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