She Kicked Her Maid Of Honor Out Of The Wedding Because She Was Uncomfortable With Entertainers Being At Her Bachelorette Party
This twenty-seven-year-old woman is set to get married in just one month. And thankfully, she had her childhood best friend and maid of honor, Kathy, right by her side to help with all of the wedding planning stressors.
Kathy is a professional wedding planner who has hosted hundreds of weddings throughout her career. So, she was super thankful to have Kathy’s help throughout the entire process. And, of course, she showered Kathy with a bunch of meaningful gifts to show her appreciation along the journey.
Anyway, now that the event itself is mostly planned, she had been looking forward to her bachelorette weekend trip, which is in just two weeks.
However, when Kathy reached out to confirm that all of the trip’s accommodations were booked, she learned that Kathy herself would not be participating.
“This came as a shock to me because how are you going to plan everything but not participate?” she said.
Well, apparently, the rest of the women in her bridal party claimed that Kathy had a “very valid reason” for not wanting to attend.
But, the other girls did not think it was their place to talk about Kathy’s business, so they told her to confront Kathy directly.
So, she reached out to her best friend and asked what the heck was going on. And Kathy’s response was not at all what she was expecting.
“Look, you have made some requests for your bachelorette party, and I respect everything you want to do. But, there are some things there that are off-limits for me,” Kathy began.
Jacob Lund – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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“Some of the stuff– such as the entertainers– are crossing boundaries regarding me and my own fiancé’s relationship. So, I made sure to arrange everything perfectly, just how you and the girls wanted it to be. But, sadly, it’s not something I want to be involved in.”
She was honestly really heartbroken that her best friend would not be there over some entertainers but tried to just suck it up.
However, as the days went by after learning about Kathy’s choice, she started to become even more upset.
So, she decided to speak with Kathy one more time to try and convince her to change her mind. Kathy was not hearing any of it, though.
Plus, at the tail end of their conversation, Kathy also “warned her” that they would not be drinking alcohol at her wedding.
And Kathy’s reasoning was that they did not want to get sick since they often feel lightheaded.
Anyway, this really pissed her off, and, at that moment, she kind of freaked out on Kathy.
“I straight up told Kathy that I don’t want her as my maid of honor if all she is going to do is be a buzzkill about everything regarding my wedding. So, she could attend as a simple guest,” she recalled. Yikes!
Obviously, Kathy was not happy about this. Then, they claimed it was unfair to exclude them over their own personal preferences.
And since the rest of her bridesmaids have found out about what she did, they have all sided with Kathy.
They believe that she is acting overdramatic for thinking that Kathy’s choices really affect her wedding so much and that, by removing Kathy as the maid of honor, she took it way too far.
Nonetheless, she is still pretty angry with Kathy. So now, she is not sure if her reaction was warranted or if her bridal party is right.
Do you think Kathy has a right to do whatever she feels most comfortable with? If you were in her shoes, would you have understood Kathy’s decision? How would you reconcile this situation?
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