Some Guy Asked Her If He Could Take Her To A Hotel In Exchange For Buying Her Dinner
Dating can be difficult. But it gets even harder when your date gives you an ultimatum on your first encounter.
This is exactly what happened to TikTok creator @chicagogirlsouthernworld, whose date contacted her afterward demanding a different kind of relationship than she wanted.
Instantly, you can see that Kim Jenson-Pitts is bothered by the way that her date ended with a man that she recently went to dinner with.
“Just when you think things couldn’t get any worse, they do,” she said at the beginning of her video.
While standing in her living room, the disappointment is apparent in her expression when she describes the aftermath of this date.
Kim explains that she received a text from this man right after their date. It’s so bad that she asks viewers for “recommendations on what I should text back in response,” because it made her feel so uncomfortable.
At first, the message sounds normal: he’s asking for a second date. Until she reads the rest of the message and figures out that he’s secretly asking for more.
“So even though I’m not wanting a relationship now foreseeable future,” she begins to read. “Any interest in dinner again…and possibly an overnight?”
TikTok; pictured above is Kim in her video
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If she was already not put off by his statement, he proceeds to make it worse by clarifying what he means.
“It would be at a nice place,” he writes to her. “Not a no-tell motel.”
He emphasizes to her that this “deal” is only to be done on the condition of another dinner date.
Absolutely shaken by this text, Kim talks about how she had a completely different idea of what their standing was.
“We went to dinner, just a casual place,” Kim said. “I offered to pay my half. He declined and paid.”
Even if he feels as though she “owes” him the experience that he’s asking for, something very important came out of their first date that he didn’t pick up on.
“We had established during that meeting that he was not looking for a relationship,” Kim said. “And I was.”
For many, that would be signal enough to abandon the relationship, given that you do not have the same intentions.
“I said, ‘look, I don’t think we’re on the same page. Thank you very much for dinner; I appreciate it’,” Kim explained.
But for him, reaching out over text message demanding that she sleep with him if he buys her dinner again was all that mattered.
“He basically asked me, if I’m interpreting this correctly, to go to a hotel with him,” Kim said, her eyes wide with shock. “And I’m assuming, you know, sleep with him for dinner!”
And though she is asking her audience for advice, Kim’s initial response says it all.
“I can afford to buy my own dinner,” she said. “What kind of lady does he think I am?!”
You can watch Kim’s video on TikTok here.
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