Her Boyfriend’s Female Friend Sent Him Boudoir Photos, So Now She Expects Him To Cut This Girl Out Of His Life, But He Doesn’t Want To
A 24-year-old girl has a boyfriend the same age as her, and one issue in their relationship has always been her boyfriend’s 26-year-old female friend.
She has always felt uneasy about her boyfriend’s female friend, and they were not all that close when she began dating her boyfriend.
It was at a friend’s birthday dinner that she was at when her boyfriend reconnected with this girl, and their friendship blossomed from there.
The one commonality her boyfriend has with this girl is that they both speak a unique language that isn’t English, and it’s this girl’s native language.
“During the dinner, she got up and walked around me to the other side of my boyfriend, and they had a conversation in front of me in the other language,” she explained.
“I tried to catch her eye and say hi to her, but she ignored my presence. After the dinner, I mentioned that I found her rude, and my boyfriend agreed that it was rude for her to do that. But after that dinner, they started talking on social media every day.”
“There have been other instances which have set off my alarm bells about their friendship, such as her pushing the physical touch boundaries that my boyfriend placed on her.”
Things really spiraled out of control yesterday when her boyfriend’s female friend went to a boudoir photo shoot.
Her boyfriend ended up questioning his friend about how the shoot went, and in response, her boyfriend’s friend actually sent photos from the shoot to him.
Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
In all of the photos, her boyfriend’s friend was dressed in a bra and underwear only, except for one photo that showed off her back without a bra on.
She knows this is completely normal for a boudoir-style photo shoot, but she thought it was highly inappropriate of her boyfriend’s friend to send at all.
“I immediately questioned my boyfriend why she was sending these photos,” she said. “His point of view is that she was going to post them on Instagram anyway and that she thought he had asked for these photos.”
“He also is reluctant to give up this friendship as he feels more comfortable talking with women, and she’s one of the few people that he talks to every day.”
“In my POV, they should never have become friends in the first place. I can’t imagine beginning a friendship with someone right after my significant other expresses that they felt uncomfortable in that person’s presence.”
She also believes that her boyfriend never enacted good boundaries with this female friend of his, and now his female friend thinks it’s ok to send steamy photos of herself to him.
She doesn’t think that his female friend respects the fact that she’s with her boyfriend; otherwise, the photos never would have been sent.
Currently, her boyfriend is putting a bit of space between himself and this friend of his, but she knows he’s only behaving like this in order to prevent a fight between them.
“I told him that I was no longer comfortable with their friendship and that I wanted it to be cut,” she continued.
“I am happy that he agreed to do so, but I am frustrated that he doesn’t truly believe that that is a course of action he should need to take.”
“He adamantly refuses to agree that what she did was inappropriate or disrespectful, and I feel like I am losing my mind as my friends that I have spoken to about this back me 100%.”
Do you think her boyfriend’s friendship is harmless, or should she push him to end his friendship with this girl for good?
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