Her Fiancé Gave His Porsche And Beautiful City Apartment To His Ex-Wife, But She Wants Him To Take It Back
This 28-year-old woman met her 35-year-old fiancé 3 years back, and 1 year ago, he got down on one knee and asked her to marry him.
Right after that, they moved in with one another, and she believes that everything between them has been excellent so far.
Her fiancé is sweet and considerate. She really has no complaints, well, except for something concerning her fiancé’s ex-wife.
He divorced his ex 5 years ago, and he has never said a word about her, and though she has asked him several times trying to get more information, he’s only mentioned that he and his ex were not compatible.
Her fiancé and his ex have a daughter who is close to 6, and her fiancé’s daughter lives with them every other weekend. Her fiancé does a great job co-parenting with his ex-wife, and they get along well.
“Only problem I have is that my fiancé left her his big beautiful 4-bedroom apartment in the city that he inherited from his father even though they had a prenup,” she explained.
“We live in a much smaller 2-bedroom apartment that isn’t in the city. Since we have my stepdaughter 1/2 the time, I felt it was odd that he just doesn’t take his apartment back. Also, he left her his Porsche, that she never uses since she lives in the center of everything. The car is also his. I never really talked about it before because I was just the GF.”
“When my fiancé proposed, I started planning and thinking about our future, and I feel that now I have more to say about our finances. I started talking about us maybe taking his apartment back.”
She and her fiancé would like to have kids together, so she knows they’re going to need more space in the future.
janifest – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
In contrast, her fiancé’s ex is single and also has a great job, so she can afford to have to support herself, and she doesn’t think this woman should be her fiancé’s problem to help support.
She has tried to discuss this with her fiancé, but every time she said something, he turned to another topic.
He did briefly say, though, that they can find another apartment when they do end up having children together.
She really got annoyed that he was being evasive and not wanting to discuss taking back his perfectly wonderful apartment and his luxury car.
And she knows that if they can get another apartment, it won’t even be close to as nice as the one his ex lives in for free.
She couldn’t wrap her head around why her fiancé would have done this in the first place, and her fiancé’s own sister couldn’t figure it out.
A week ago, she finally decided to take matters into her own hands. While she was dropping her stepdaughter off with her fiancé’s ex, she questioned her about if they could have the apartment, and it made sense as she was about to be the one marrying him.
“She was a bit flustered, so I apologized to her, but she said that I didn’t need to apologize and that I was right,” she said. “She agreed that my question was reasonable.”
“When I got home, I told my fiancé what happened. I felt that he got very angry, but he just told me that if I ever brought up this subject again, it was over between us.”
“I started crying and asked why but he didn’t elaborate. He just said that if I ever brought up the subject, it was over between us. Very cold and calm. He went out, and he came home 3 hours later. His ex apparently told him that she was fine with moving out because he told me that if she did move out, it was over between us.”
She really was puzzled by his behavior, and she wasn’t trying to be mean here. She just wanted to be able to live in a place her husband technically owns because his ex still living there is just bizarre to her.
Do you agree that it’s strange that her fiancé’s ex is living in his apartment and driving his car even though they’re not together?
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