After Her Younger Sister Ruined Her College Acceptance Announcement, She Screamed That Her Sister Was Going To Die Alone And Unhappy Unless Her Attitude Changes
This 17-year-old girl honestly just does not like her sister, who is 15. Yes, she does love her sibling.
“I’d give her a kidney in a heartbeat if she needed it,” she said.
But, as a person, she just doesn’t like her sister. In fact, if they weren’t related, she doesn’t think they would ever be friends.
Now, while growing up, she and her sister were very close, and they got along quite well. As they grew older, though, the pair drifted apart.
Eventually, she was not that nice to her sister anymore, and her sister reciprocated. It all really began when her sister tried to hang out with her and her friends.
And while she realizes in hindsight that her sister was just trying to get closer to her, she found it really annoying at the time.
More recently, she claimed that she has been working on being nicer toward her sister. She wants to improve their relationship before she goes abroad for college in July.
But according to her, her sister’s behavior makes her efforts extremely challenging. First of all, she claimed her sister is seriously mean and disrespectful to their mother. And in general, her sister is reportedly really catty.
She recalled how, on numerous occasions, she had caught her sister badmouthing someone to her friends right after hanging out with them.
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“Also, when she asks to borrow my clothes, and I say yes, she comes into my room and claims she is ‘drowning’ in them,” she added.
And just a couple of days ago, her sister even made some really rude comments about her weight. Apparently, her sister realized they both wore the same pant size and actually started crying. Then, her sister claimed she didn’t “want to be fat” like her.
She pointed out how they are both at a wealthy weight for their height, though, so she honestly has no idea where that comment came from.
Regardless, behavior like this coming from her sister just makes her feel terrible– especially because she has been trying to be nice, and it feels like her efforts are for nothing.
Most recently, though, she could not take it anymore and stood up for herself after her sister pushed her over the line one more time.
It all began at dinner this week. Prior to the meal, she found out that she had been accepted into a very prestigious university in the field she hopes to launch a career.
And after working hard in the IB Diploma Programme, she was really excited to share the good news with her parents at dinner.
Right afterward, though, her sister immediately put her down.
“Wow, they must be taking anyone since your grades are really low and your CV is garbage,” her sister said.
At that moment, she admitted to feeling furious, and about 12 years’ worth of resentment just spilled out of her. She began screaming at her sister– accusing her of being a horrible person.
“And that I hope she knows she will die alone and unhappy if she doesn’t change,” she recalled.
Her comments pushed her sister to burst into tears, though. Afterward, her sister then fled the dinner and ran to her room.
That left just her and her parents alone. And while her parents claimed she had a right to be angry, they said it was wrong of her to scream such mean remarks at her younger sister.
Since then, she has also been receiving calls and texts from her family members– urging her to apologize to her sister. Quite frankly, though, she just doesn’t want to.
So now, she’s been left wondering whether telling her sister off was the wrong thing to do.
Does it sound like her younger sister is just going through a formative time in teenhood that is resulting in this attitude? Should she have been more understanding of that, or did she have a right to stick up for herself? Were her comments too harsh or warranted?
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