She Only Found Out Her Husband Went Out For Coffee With An Ex-Coworker He Used To Like Via Rumors He Was Cheating, And After She Confronted Him, He Rated His Ex-Coworker A 10
This 30-year-old woman has been married to her husband, who is 44, for two years. And right now, she is eight months pregnant.
Yet, her husband recently went out on a coffee date with an ex-coworker– and the whole situation has been seriously freaking her out.
To preface, she claimed that she really is not a jealous person. In the past, her husband has gotten coffee or even gone out with plenty of his friends– people who she believed were “lovely.”
On one occasion, he even returned home with a lipstick stain right on his cheek from one of his female friends.
“And it was totally okay with me,” she recalled. “This is just an example of how cool I am with certain situations and how I have trust in him and his female friends.”
While it is not out of character for her husband to go out with his female friends, though, one instance more recently was completely different.
Apparently, one of her husband’s old coworkers from another town direct messaged him and asked to go out. In the message, the woman claimed that she had been in the area visiting a friend and wanted to get some coffee.
Now, upon receiving the message, her husband– who is a doctor– had been in the middle of a shift. Nonetheless, he made time and went to meet up with the woman in front of the hospital.
And this was extremely bothersome to her for a few reasons. First of all, she knew that her husband used to like this particular woman. In fact, the relationship only didn’t work out because they lived in different cities.
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Second, her husband never told her about the coffee date. Instead, she only found out about what happened after she started hearing rumors about her husband– more specifically, how he was cheating on her.
So, she was forced to bring up the rumors in order to hear what her husband had to say about the coffee trip.
And during that conversation, he claimed there were only rumors going around because the girl was a 10 out of 10.
Obviously, though, this only upset her more– especially because her husband had rated her in the past and claimed she was a 7 out of 10!
Still, her husband’s reasoning was that since his ex-coworker was a “10 out of 10,” it made sense why there were rumors.
“He said it was nothing but a coffee, and if he had sat with a girl who was a 2 out of 10, no one would’ve started rumors or even noticed,” she explained.
On top of that, her husband was adamant that people were just mean and had picked up on the wrong vibe.
So, she did admit to believing him. But she is still having second thoughts because of her husband’s past with the woman.
“My gut says he is attracted to her, and I am not okay with him having coffee with a girl who he was in a gray zone with,” she vented.
“He admitted to having a crush on her before, and he has complimented her to me.”
Every time she tries to talk to her husband about the situation, though, he just gets very upset and accuses her of being obsessive and controlling.
So now, with her husband maintaining that the coffee date was nothing, she’s been left wondering whether she is being too dramatic or if her concerns are justified.
How would you feel if your partner went out for coffee with an ex-coworker they had a crush on? What about if your partner didn’t tell you, and you only found out from cheating rumors? On top of that, can you believe her husband rated the woman a 10 out of 10 while rating her a mere 7 out of 10? Does she have a right to feel really upset in this situation? What would you do?
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