She Picked A Fight With Her Friend After Their Plans Got Canceled For The Fourth Time In A Row But Got Accused Of Being The Bad Guy

This 18-year-old woman has a friend named Ava, who is also 18. This year, Ava will be heading to another city to attend college.
“So, obviously, I wanted to hang out with Ava before she left,” she said.
But she had been spending most of her time preparing for a really competitive exam, which she finished this past May. That’s why she hadn’t seen Ava for more than an hour over the past two years, and she really wanted to see her friend before they lost the opportunity.
So, ever since May, she has been reaching out to Ava and trying to make plans to hang out. However, every single time, something always came up, and their plans got canceled.
This was mostly due to issues on Ava’s side, too.
For instance, the first time they were supposed to meet up, Ava claimed it was impossible to get a cab due to the rain. But it wasn’t even raining that bad; instead, she said it was just drizzling.
Regardless, she said it was fine, and she and Ava planned a different hang-out.
Yet, for a second time, Ava canceled and simply said she couldn’t make it. This happened for their third hangout plan, too, when Ava claimed something urgent had come up.
“I started to think that maybe Ava just doesn’t want to meet me,” she recalled.

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But then, Ava messaged and claimed she wanted to meet up yesterday at 4:00 p.m. She agreed to that and was excited to finally meet up with her friend.
Well, the morning of, she decided to text Ava to confirm the plan. And surprise, surprise: Ava canceled again– claiming she needed to pack and wanted to spend some time with family before leaving.
Afterward, Ava asked if they could just meet up tomorrow at 5:00 p.m. instead, but that didn’t work for her since she had class until 6:00 p.m. and needed to study afterward.
So, she was forced to turn down Ava’s suggestion. She also decided to text her friend and be upfront about her frustrations.
“I sent Ava a message saying that if she doesn’t want to hang out with me, then to just say so instead of making plans and then canceling them,” she revealed.
Ava wound up getting rubbed the wrong way by her honesty, though, and swore that she had just been busy. Plus, her friend accused her of being a jerk since she knew that Ava was preparing to move away.
Anyway, since they got into this argument, she’s been left feeling pretty confused and is now wondering whether picking a fight with her friend over constantly canceling their plans made her a real jerk or not.
Can you understand why she got frustrated with Ava? Does Ava’s excuse make sense, or would you still be annoyed? How would you have reacted in this situation?
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