She Ordered Doordash While Her Wife Was Cooking Dinner, And It Sparked A Major Argument
This 21-year-old woman and her wife, who is 23, got married about a year ago. And even after they moved in together, their routines didn’t change very much.
Her wife is a teacher who usually arrives home at about 3:00 p.m. each afternoon. She, on the other hand, gets home around 4:30 p.m.
Due to the line of work she’s in, she also tends to get home later on Fridays– at about 5:30 p.m.
She does not get a dinner break at work, either. So, on Fridays, she has always ordered takeout for the past two and a half years.
“I have ordered Doordash from Panda Express or Chipotle every Friday,” she said.
“And since getting married, I have usually also ordered food for my wife.”
That’s why, this past Friday, nothing was different. She ordered food for herself and her wife as usual.
But, upon getting home from work, she was shocked to learn that her wife was furious. Apparently, her wife had spent all day cooking dinner and was angry that she ordered in– accusing her of being inconsiderate and disrespected.
“My wife also said I should have waited to get food until I got home so I would know if she already had plans for dinner,” she recalled.
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However, her wife never once mentioned that she was planning to cook dinner.
So, on the one hand, she does understand why her wife was hurt, and she never intended to make her wife so upset.
“But on the other hand, my wife never communicated with me that she was planning on cooking, and she has cooked dinner maybe twice in our entire relationship,” she explained.
Not to mention, she always just orders food on her way out of work because she doesn’t want to be waiting for the food to arrive until 7:00 p.m.
Still, she realizes that she perhaps could have communicated better with her wife. So now, she’s not sure whether ordering Doordash while her wife was at home cooking really made her a jerk or not.
Can you understand why she didn’t expect her wife to switch up their routine? If her wife planned to deviate from the norm, shouldn’t her wife have communicated that first? What do you think?
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