He Cut His Mom Out Of His Life And Said He Didn’t Want To Speak To Her Anymore Because He Didn’t Approve Of His Mom’s New Boyfriend, Who Is Over 20 Years Younger Than Her
This 30-year-old man decided to cut his 60-year-old mom out of his life after she started dating a 37-year-old guy, who he just doesn’t approve of.
To be clear, he is completely fine with his mom entering the dating pool again. In fact, after his father passed away in 2020, he encouraged his mom to get back out there.
However, he met her new boyfriend on his birthday a few weeks ago. And he immediately didn’t like the dynamic he sensed between them.
First of all, he realized that his mom paid for the guy’s dinner and all of his drinks when they went out. His mom’s boyfriend also cursed a ton and actually told his mom to “shut up” after they’d had a few drinks.
“This, of course, doesn’t sit right with me at all,” he said.
“If the guy was brave enough to tell her to shut up in front of me in my own home, how comfortable is he really?”
That’s why he and his mom’s boyfriend ultimately got into a verbal argument, and his mom opted to leave shortly afterward.
Then, the following day, his mom apologized for bringing her boyfriend to his birthday celebration. She also claimed that she wasn’t going to speak to the guy anymore.
Well, this past weekend, he realized that his mom had lied straight to his face.
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It all began when his mom gave him a call, and he invited her to visit him and spend the weekend with him– since he lives about three hours away.
But, his mom turned down his offer, claimed that she was too tired to drive, and told him to just have a fun weekend.
After that, his mom also did not return any of his texts or calls for an entire day– which was very out of character for her.
That’s why he became very concerned and decided to send someone to visit her home to conduct a wellness check.
“It turns out she was home, and the 37-year-old friend was there,” he revealed.
This made him really angry, too, and he got into a big argument with his mom. He also later found out from his brother that his mom had been attending a festival all day, which was two hours away from her home.
So, he wound up telling his mom that he no longer wanted to talk to her if she was going to choose that guy– who is his age– over him and his opinion of their relationship.
“The constant lying and sneaking around is upsetting me and worries me because the guy is so much younger than she is. I’m unsure of his intentions, and I generally just did not like him,” he vented.
Still, he cannot help but wonder whether cutting his mom out of his life just because he doesn’t agree with her relationship was actually the wrong way to handle the situation.
Have you ever not approved of a relationship your parent entered? Does it sound like it’s justified for him to be wary of her mom’s new boyfriend? Did he do the right thing by cutting her off, or could he have dealt with the situation in a better way?
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