She Tried To Warn Her Best Friend About Her Toxic Ex-Boyfriend, But Her Friend Got Engaged To Him Anyway, And Now, They’re Expecting A Baby
Have you ever had a friend or family member date an ex of yours? It’s super awkward, and in some instances, everything works out, but in others, your loved one may put their blinders on when it comes to your ex.
One woman’s been trying to warn her best friend about her ex, but she never listened and is now engaged to him and pregnant with his baby.
She’s 25 years old and used to be engaged to a guy named Dave. She met Dave in college, and the first few months of their relationship were so good that they decided to get engaged in less than a year of meeting each other.
However, once they moved in together and reached the 10-month mark, she began to see how toxic Dave was.
Not only was he lazy, strange, and had gross tendencies, but she once caught Dave trying to mess with her birth control because he wanted a kid when she wasn’t ready. Dave gave her major trust and intimacy issues, so she finally broke up with him.
A few months after her breakup, she got a call from her best friend, Sue, who was supposed to be the Maid of Honor at her and Dave’s wedding. Out of the blue, Sue revealed that Dave had contacted her and asked her to go out with him.
She gave Sue a very serious warning, telling her that Dave was not a good guy and that because she’s like a sister to her, she didn’t want to see her enter a relationship with him and get hurt. However, knowing she couldn’t control Sue, she acknowledged that she was a grown-up and could do what she wanted but told her to watch out.
Nevertheless, Sue and Dave started dating a week later. She stayed in touch with Sue but blocked Dave out of her life, even though he attempted to message her through social media.
A year and a half later, Sue and Dave are still together, and she gets a concerning phone call from Sue, who is in tears.
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Sue revealed that she and Dave are engaged, and she’s pregnant with his baby, and things are going terribly.
“She’s at the end of her line,” she said.
“He doesn’t help with the house and pays little on bills. He told her, his pregnant girlfriend, to go donate blood if she was ‘so worried about money.’ I let her cry for an hour.”
Sue went on about how lazy Dave is, how he refuses to work, and how he spends much of his time doing promiscuous things online. Some of Sue’s stories about Dave sounded exactly like some of the ones she had shared with her in the past while she was still with him.
“I felt numb to listen to it and just thanked God it wasn’t me,” she recalled.
“This was what I was afraid of. This is why I left him.”
When Sue finished her rant, she gently reminded Sue that she told her this would happen if she started dating Dave. Sue then became furious and hung up on her. She hasn’t heard from Sue since and can’t help but wonder if she did anything wrong.
Should she feel bad for having an “I told you so” moment with Sue, or did Sue need to be reminded of how many warnings she got against Dave?
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