She Found Mementos Her Husband Saved From His Affair Partner In His Car, So She’s Ready To Leave Him

Photo 209515482 © Roman Samborskyi - Dreamstime.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Photo 209515482 © Roman Samborskyi - Dreamstime.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Back in May of 2021, this 41-year-old woman separated from her 43-year-old husband, and she wasn’t expecting to have to do this at all.

A couple of months after they separated, as they were deciding to reconcile, she discovered that her husband not only had a girlfriend but that he was living with this woman too.

Learning this crushed her and sent her into emotional turmoil.

“Because of this, against my better judgment, I continued an attempted reconciliation and believed the many lies he told me about this woman and their relationship,” she explained.

“She ended up moving 5+ hours away in March 2022. A couple of months after she moved, we started really attempting to reconcile, and he moved back to our house in August 2022 after a hospitalization.”

This all leads us to yesterday when she was trying to find her husband’s car key inside of his car without any luck.

She then dug through her husband’s work bag to find his key, as she figured that would be someplace he would have put it.

She never ended up finding her husband’s car key, but she did find a key ring shaped into half of a heart, a voice recorder, and a compass inscribed with a message about finding your way back home.

“I ended up charging the voice recorder and found a couple [of] recordings and one of the affair partners saying she will always love him,” she said.

Photo 209515482 © Roman Samborskyi – Dreamstime.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“We’ve had lots of discussions over the past year about cutting contact and not keeping anything that would remind him of her.”

“I’m not sure why there were some many conversations about it- it seemed obvious to me that you would cut the affair partner out of your life if you are back with your wife…”

After finding these mementos, she’s ready to leave her husband for good. She can’t imagine spending the remainder of her life concerned about the feelings her husband still harbors for this other woman.

Obviously, her husband does have feelings for his affair partner if he held onto these objects, and he vehemently denies that he does.

“It will take me a couple [of] months to pay down some debt and have enough for an apartment,” she continued.

“Should I stay long enough for that and use him the same way I’ve been used or just leave now?”

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