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It's allegedly bad luck for someone else to put on your wedding dress before you walk down the aisle in it.

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Even if you don't want to chance the bad luck part of that, it's just downright rude to try on another person's wedding dress...without at least asking for their permission first.

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A 26-year-old woman was left in need of a new wedding dress after her future mother-in-law and sister-in-law both tried hers on without her even knowing and ruining it in the process.

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This young woman said she has been engaged to her 28-year-old fiancé for around 4 months, and their wedding was set to happen in October.

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Her mother-in-law quickly wasted no time hounding her about picking the perfect wedding dress and even telling her she would be better at selecting one.

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Her mother-in-law insisted on being part of the wedding dress shopping, but she claimed she was too busy to go when it came time to start.

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So, this young woman went shopping for her wedding dress without her fiancé's mom and sister, and she ended up finding a wonderful dress.

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The dress was more money than she had saved up for, but she got it anyway and was happy with her choice.

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After having a few changes made to the dress, it got sent to her apartment. When she received the dress, she put it in "a safe place, so it doesn't get ruined."

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Although she did take steps to protect her dress, it, unfortunately, did wind up destroyed.

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"Yesterday, I got back from my mom's house and found that my fiancé wasn't home neither was the dress, I called him immediately, knowing that he must've taken it to show it to his mom since she continuously asked to see it and refused to have me send her pictures of it on Facebook," she said.

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It turns out that's exactly what her fiancé did. He took her wedding dress over to his mom's place to show it to her.

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When her fiancé did get back home, she found her dress covered with a pile of grocery bags, and it was not in good condition at all.

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The zipper of the dress was broken, the straps were loose, and the fabric all over the dress had stretched out.

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There was no doubt in this young woman's mind that her fiancé's mom and sister and tried her wedding dress on.

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She immediately called up her mother-in-law to confront her, and she admitted to taking turns with her fiancé's sister trying on the wedding dress.

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This young woman was beyond upset, and her mother-in-law insisted she was blowing things out of proportion.

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"She said she'd get a replacement for the broken zipper, but I told her to pay for a new dress since it was stretched out and no longer fitting," she continued.

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Her mother-in-law said she would not be paying her to get a new wedding dress, but her own mom offered to help fix it.

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"...My mom said she'd pay for fixing it, but I just hate it now that someone else wore it before me."

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She thinks her fiancé should pay for the dress or accept responsibility for what he did, which he is failing to do.

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"I'm done tolerating her behavior and letting her disrespect me like this," she added about her mother-in-law.

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She's left thinking that she should really postpone her wedding. How would you deal with this?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.