She’s Sharing A List Of What She Needs Before Getting Pregnant, Which Includes A $250,000 Allowance Per Baby, A Personal Trainer, A “Mommy Makeover,” And A Housekeeper
Pregnant women and hard-working mothers, in general, are like superheroes and don’t get nearly enough credit or praise for everything they go through just to bring a baby into this world.
Many women have “non-negotiable” factors that would need to be in place before they get pregnant and start having children. For instance, many women insist on being married to a committed partner, financially stable, and living in a big enough house before they start having children.
Other women have more extensive requirements before getting pregnant, and one woman recently went viral on TikTok for explaining hers.
Jenny (@_lifeofjenny_) is a London-based lifestyle content creator on TikTok who received over 50,000 likes on her video explaining her list of “non-negotiables” for her future pregnancies, which is a list of things that must be established and put in place before she ever gets pregnant.
“As a woman, I would be sacrificing a lot, so I don’t think [this list] is asking for too much,” says Jenny in her video.
If only every pregnant person could get each of these things on Jenny’s list.
First and foremost, Jenny wants to be married with a pre-nuptial agreement before having kids, as she has no intention of being someone’s “baby mama” if she isn’t married to them. Then, she demands on getting a $250,000 “allowance” for every baby she has.
“Surrogates make like $150,000 a year just to give birth,” says Jenny in her video.
“So please, don’t come at me. This will basically cover my weekly therapy sessions I’m going to need before and [after] giving birth.”
Svetlana Sokolova – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Jenny also says this allowance would pay for sessions with a personal trainer to get her back in shape and feel confident after giving birth, as well as groceries and other items for the baby.
Next, Jenny says she will not be forced to work while pregnant, as she won’t have the capacity to. She’d also like a housekeeper to take care of her daily household chores and meals for six months after giving birth, then, once the six months are over, have a cleaner come to her house weekly.
Jenny also wants to have a night nurse to help her sleep after having a baby, and she requires that she be able to get a “mommy makeover” that will help transform her body after giving birth.
Finally, Jenny wants a “push present.” Push presents are gifts a woman’s partner will give her as a thank-you for bringing their child into the world. While most women are given a nice piece of jewelry as a push present, Jenny wants one that would be used more like an asset.
“[It’ll be] either an apartment in my name, a car, or a business,” says Jenny.
“Something that is going to secure me and our child or children [in the] future should anything happen.”
Jenny ends her video by telling her viewers she has been quite adamant about living the rest of her life child-free, but if the right man came along and could give her all those things, she’d consider becoming a mother.
While some TikTok users judged Jenny for her list and called it unrealistic and ridiculous, some viewers who have had experience with childbirth or parenting defended her list.
“Considering what motherhood is like for many, these aren’t crazy requests,” commented one TikTok user.
What do you think of Jenny’s list?
@onlyjennyyyyyyy My non negotiables for Preganacy , creating a human life takes a lot of sacrifice as a woman and im not putting myself through all that for free sorry not sorry #relationship #datingadvice #single #pregnancy #pregnancylist #greenscreen
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