Her Fiancé’s Worth More Than $57 Million Dollars, And Now He Wants Her To Sign A Prenup Before Their Wedding In Two Months
Three years ago, this 26-year-old woman met her 41-year-old fiancé, and back then, she was making $200,000 a year and already worth $1.3 million dollars, as she inherited her grandpa’s home after he passed away. Now, she makes $420,000 a year and has a lot of stocks.
Six months ago, her fiancé proposed to her, and they have been having a great time planning their upcoming wedding.
She says she has always felt like she and her fiancé are a perfect fit, and everything for them has been very simple so far.
“Yes, I was hesitant at first because we have a 15-year age gap, but he didn’t have kids; he has never been married or engaged before,” she explained.
“He spent his late 20’s and 30’s building two companies, and just sold the last one this year. Here’s where we run into the issues. I know my fiancé has done well.”
“I’ve never been in it for the money. I make good money and did inherit money. But well, as we get into being married soon…I found out he’s actually worth over $57 million dollars…I really thought it was closer to $15 million.”
Suddenly, her fiancé asked her to sign a prenup, but the thing is, that piece of paper is not something that she believes in.
For several weeks, they have been fighting about the prenup. Then, her fiancé said as soon as they get married, she needs to quit her job and stop working since he says there is no point and her money is useless to them.
Her fiancé wants her to focus on having kids and being a stay-at-home mom and wife, which infuriates her.
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This hurts her terribly, and she’s beginning to think that their age gap is too much. Her fiancé is so much more ahead of her in life, not only in regards to money.
Her fiancé has never acted like this before, but as their wedding date draws ever closer, her fiancé is showing her an ugly side.
Last night, when she came home from a work trip, her fiancé pointed out to her that she needed to just relax at their house and make his children before pointing out that her income was completely worthless.
She actually cried, and she hasn’t done that in quite a long time. She was so excited coming home from work since she closed an enormous deal, and all of her happiness and pride got squashed.
She loves her job, and she isn’t sure how she can move forward with marrying a man who clearly does not support her in any way.
Their wedding is in two months, and she can’t see why they should get married if her fiancé is going to try to make her sign that prenup.
“Where is the man who was so excited at my end-of-year bonus when I was 23?” she wondered. “It was $15,000.”
“He was so excited and proud of me. Now it just seems I’m worthless and just meant to be a baby maker. Any input? I really am just lost. I love him dearly. We’ve been through a lot together. But I don’t know if I can marry someone who really thinks of my income as worthless. That what I do in life isn’t worth it.”
“Despite my significant contributions to our relationship and my own financial stability, he now dismisses my income and belittles my achievements. He even attributed my recent miscarriage to my job, further highlighting his changing attitude towards me. I’m torn. On one hand, I love him and value our history together. On the other, I’m unsure if I can marry someone who doesn’t respect my independence and ambitions.”
What advice do you have for her?
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