She Screamed At Her Friend’s Sister For Flirting With Her Husband, But Now This Girl Wants A Public Apology
This 31-year-old woman has a 33-year-old friend named Lisa, whom she met back in college before becoming roommates with her.
She absolutely adores Lisa, and Lisa has a younger sister named Amy, who is in her 20s. She’s met Amy a couple of times in college, but Amy was so much younger than they were that she never exactly spent a lot of time with Amy.
Back in February, Lisa had a bridal shower, and she spent a lot of money on it, as she was unable to help plan or attend the event.
She gave Amy the money to pay for the food, drinks, and decor. She also generously paid for 7 of Lisa’s bridesmaids to stay at a hotel overnight.
“I did all of this because I couldn’t make it to her bachelorette party the week before; I had also paid for the limo Amy wanted to host the party in,” she explained.
“At the shower, I saw Amy, and she was gushing about how I had spent a lot of money on Lisa. I just said if it’s for Lisa, I would have paid for anything.”
“Amy was hinting that my job was paying so much money for me to spend on Lisa this much. I’m a new surgeon; just graduated from residency, I got a pay bump but not a lot. I’m lucky because my husband is supporting me while I go through fellowship.”
Her 40-year-old husband is a doctor, but he’s already pretty high up in his career, whereas she’s just starting out.
Her husband even paid off her student loans as a wedding gift, and he’s pretty incredible and kind. She says she’s completely obsessed with her husband.
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This month, Lisa had her wedding, and she and her husband were able to make it. When the wedding was over, Lisa invited her closest friends and family members to her mom and dad’s house for a nice dinner.
“Amy was very handsy with my husband, even during the wedding; she was asking him about his job, how smart he was to be working in the ICU, how hot he was, how he looks like a young Alain Delon blah, blah,” she said.
“My husband was giving me signals to come to him, and I did. This happened at least 2 more times. At Lisa’s parents, Amy was wrapping her arm around my husband’s back and was serving him drinks and food. I told Lisa’s mom about how Amy’s making me and my husband very uncomfortable, and her mom pulled her aside and told her off, I think because she came out grumpy. She was still acting like a crazed teenager because when we wanted to leave, she wouldn’t give my husband his jacket back to him and kept sniffing it.”
Finally, her husband had to raise his voice and tell Amy to knock it off and hand his jacket over. She then screamed at Amy to stop being obnoxious since she was clearly flirting with her husband so shamelessly.
The last thing she said to Amy was to leave them both alone, and they left. Later on, Lisa’s mom sent her a text message, demanding that she apologize to Amy publicly for telling her off.
Lisa’s mom thinks she should post something “heartfelt” on social media as an apology, as many of the guests overheard her shouting at Amy, and these people feel that she embarrassed Amy and that she reacted poorly to the situation.
“Lisa is on my side and told me Amy has always had gold-digging tendencies and that this isn’t the first time she’d done something like this,” she continued.
“She flirted with her friend’s dad and their next-door neighbor, who is married when she thought that they were wealthy. Lisa said that she’ll handle it. I already felt so bad I ruined the last moments of her wedding day, and now she has to deal with this.”
“I’m ruminating on this a lot lately and wondering if I should apologize to Amy. I don’t want to, but then again, if I did, I would explain exactly what happened and how it merited my reaction to her. Though this might add fuel to the fire. There is so much drama right now, and I want to preserve my friendship with Lisa.”
What advice do you have for her?
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