She Started Dating Her Baby Daddy Again, But He Didn’t Tell Her That He Got Another Girl Pregnant
This 25-year-old woman and her 23-year-old baby daddy have a daughter together who is nearly three.
Her baby daddy always pushed for a child, and since she thought he would be a great dad, she agreed to have a child with him.
After their daughter was born, their relationship started to go downhill, and they broke up about two years ago.
Her baby daddy quickly jumped right into another relationship since he struggles with being all alone, and four months ago, her baby daddy broke up with his new girlfriend after a tumultuous time.
When her baby daddy began dating this other girl, he sent her a message every day insisting he was still in love with her and wanted to date her again.
“I told the girl because I felt bad for her, and she was extremely rude to me, telling me to “stay away from her boyfriend” and insulting me and calling me names, so every time he messaged me after that asking, we get back together (which was nearly every two-three weeks throughout the entirety of their relationship), I kept it to myself,” she explained.
“We have started seeing each other again recently, and things were going well until I found out yesterday that the girl he was with now has a 2-month-old daughter who is his.”
Her baby daddy promises he wasn’t trying to get this other girl pregnant and that she secretly baby-trapped him in an effort to control him.
Apparently, this other girl thought that getting pregnant would prevent her baby daddy from going right back to her.
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Her baby daddy insists he didn’t want to have this child, so he never signed the birth certificate, and the little girl doesn’t have the same last name as him.
“He says he doesn’t want to let this “ruin his life” and that, in his eyes, our daughter is his only “true” child, which hurts my heart for this other child,” she said.
“I am so conflicted. That little girl is ultimately my daughter’s sibling, and I don’t want to deprive her of having a relationship with her, but I do not want his ex around my child or around me, seeing as she has treated me extremely poorly in the past.”
“I am so hurt and feel so betrayed. My head is all over the place, and I don’t know what to do regarding the future of our relationship either.”
She isn’t sure she can move past this and forgive him. She’s also doubting that she wants to keep dating him after this.
It breaks her heart to have to stop seeing him, but she doesn’t see what other choice she has. What advice do you have for her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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