After Finding Out His Wife Had An Affair With His Friend And He’s Not Actually The Biological Father Of His Daughter, He Plans To Divorce Her And Abandon Her Child
This 32-year-old man and his wife, who is also 32, have been married for seven years now, and they have a 5-year-old daughter together.
“Let me tell you, I truly thought she was the love of my life,” he said.
Then, throughout the past year, they started to encounter a lot of issues and lost their “spark.” Still, according to him, he continued to have a close relationship with both his wife and daughter.
However, just a few months ago, everything came crashing down. Out of the blue, he got a call from his 32-year-old friend named Jack, asking to meet him.
He found this pretty strange, and when they got together, Jack was actually pretty drunk.
Afterward, his friend proceeded to reveal how he’d been having an affair with his wife years ago. Apparently, the cheating started not long after he and his wife tied the knot, and she continued having an affair with Jack from there on.
“Man, at that point, I was boiling with rage and wanted to smack the [heck] out of him,” he recalled.
He tried to hold back, too, but he still wound up slapping Jack.
Following the meeting with his friend, he also went straight home to confront his wife. She started crying and confessed to the affair through her tears before begging him not to leave – promising that the whole thing was a mistake.
mdyn – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Yet, he wouldn’t budge. He packed up his stuff and left to stay at his parent’s house. He also asked for a paternity test on their daughter, which made his wife have a total meltdown.
Well, the test was ultimately done, and he couldn’t believe the result. He found out that he wasn’t really his daughter’s biological father after all – and he was seething.
“Every time I looked at the child, I was reminded of humiliation and rage. I no longer wanted to raise the child,” he revealed.
He hopes that one day, in the future, he will be able to have a family with a child that’s his own. He told all of this to his wife, too, sharing his plans to divorce her and leave her daughter behind.
And she’s begun accusing him of being a heartless jerk for abandoning his child.
“But I told her I am not doing this,” he vented.
Nonetheless, he can’t help but wonder if walking away from both of them like that would really be the wrong thing to do.
Would you be able to maintain a relationship with your wife’s affair child after this? What advice would you give him?
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