7 Signs Your Partner Loves You Unconditionally
Love Isn’t Always Loud
The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. Butterflies may be real (especially during those first few dates), but rom-coms have taught us to believe that love is always loud, overwhelming, and completely intoxicating.
On the contrary, I think some of the most meaningful and long-lasting relationships are quieter while still being steadfast.
Here Are 7 Signs Your Partner Loves You Unconditionally
The initial “honeymoon phase” may fade, the novelty of being in a brand-new relationship eventually wears off, and we all have to face the challenges that life throws at us.
Yet, even as we get older and weather life’s chaos, true love prevails in the way your partner always shows up and supports you, no matter what.
So, in case you need a reminder, here are seven signs your partner loves you unconditionally.
1. They Don’t Try To Change You
Absolutely no one is perfect, and that’s okay. In fact, your significant other probably fell in love with some of your quirks, and now, they don’t try to change your flaws or shortcomings. Instead, they just accept those traits as part of what makes you, well, you.
We all have our own strengths, and the best couples who love each other unconditionally are content with that. They come together to find a balance that works for them without sacrificing their individuality in the process.
2. Your Partner Gives Selflessly
I believe there should never be “strings attached” in genuine relationships. And thankfully, if your partner is selfless, there probably aren’t.
Do they like to make you happy and be there for you without even thinking about what they’re going to receive in return? If so, it suggests your partner is “in it” for the right reasons.
They don’t keep score or treat your relationship as a game. Rather, they automatically put you first because they care about you more than anything else.
3. They Never Judge You
Every single person makes mistakes, meaning we all feel guilt, shame, stress, or anxiety from time to time. Nonetheless, your partner doesn’t judge you for that, even when they’re the person hurt by your actions.
They realize that we’re all human and encourage you to open up about your deepest, darkest thoughts, making you feel safe to reflect on anything, even the situations or feelings you’re not the most proud of. The ability to get vulnerable without fear of criticism or backlash is a hallmark of an unconditionally loving relationship.
4. Your Partner Is Loyal
Commitment is a cornerstone of relationships that stand the test of time. All couples will face challenges. Plus, it’s only natural for us to feel tempted toward others from time to time.
But someone who loves you no matter what won’t give in to those temptations or betray you. First of all, they respect you (and the relationship you’ve built together) too much. On top of that, your partner probably trusts that you’d always do the same for them.
5. They Prioritize Growth, Not Resentment
While the first few months of dating might make it seem like you and your partner are on the same page about everything, that tends to change as relationships progress. When we start aging and evolving as people, it’s completely normal for us to get into disagreements and fights with those closest to us, particularly our partners.
However, your partner might view this as a good thing. More specifically, they actively decide to view challenges as learning opportunities instead of holding onto resentment.
When your significant other prioritizes joint growth over tally-keeping or holding grudges, it’s a clear sign that they love you and truly care about the longevity of your relationship.
6. Your Partner Values Your Opinion
Do you remember when you were a teen, and you really wanted to do something (like go out with your friends), but you knew your parents wouldn’t agree? What was the easiest solution? Probably sneak out or just go without telling them at all and face the repercussions afterward.
This might seem juvenile, and it is, but so many adults still practice the “act now, ask for forgiveness later” tactic in their relationships. When someone doesn’t respect you, and they know you won’t see eye to eye on something, they’ll just go out and make their own choices without consulting you first to avoid facing pushback. It goes without saying that such a habit can kill any trust in a relationship.
A partner who loves you unconditionally, though, will seek out your opinion immediately and want to involve you in the decision-making. They value you and your relationship so much that making choices together is what matters most, no matter the outcome.
7. You Both Feel Comfortable In The Mundane
Last but certainly not least, the closest couples are those who feel comfortable and actually enjoy the mundanities of day-to-day life. Too many people get the urge to “fill the void” by constantly talking, remaining on the move, or seeking out other forms of stimulation.
But when your partner is your best friend and loves you unconditionally, you’ll enjoy sitting in silence and simply co-existing just as much as you relish the more “exciting” parts of life. You both feel content navigating the day-to-day by each other’s side, regardless of how routine your relationship has become over time.
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