If your friend was sleeping with a married man or woman, would you do the right thing and tell that person’s clueless spouse, or would you mind your own business and stay out of the drama?
This woman has a 36-year-old friend who has been dating a 27-year-old man named Chad for close to two years, though their relationship has been very hot and cold.
Several months into dating Chad, her friend discovered that he’s actually married and not single. Chad paid her friend lip service and told her everything she wanted to hear to reassure her and make her feel like he was still worth being with.
Chad said his wife is meaningless to him, they haven’t hooked up in months, he’s only with her for their kids, and their marriage is dead.
Oh, and the best part is that Chad claims that he would have already filed for divorce, except his lawyer advised him against it. Sure.
Her friend was accepting of everything, but gave Chad a timeline for moving ahead with the divorce. Six more months go by, and Chad reveals to her friend that his wife is pregnant and giving birth in three months. So much for the divorce deadline!
“They break up, get together, break up…. next thing I know, he’s back at her house for early morning booty calls again,” she explained.
“Fast forward 3 months. His wife has their 3rd child. The same week, my friend finds out she is pregnant…A few weeks go by, and he calls to beg her to go out of state to have it terminated.”
“…Ultimately, he convinces her to do it. She goes all by herself out of state and does the thing, without any support. He didn’t help pay for it, he didn’t take her to the airport, [and] he didn’t even come check on her afterward. They break up.”
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A handful of months go by, and guess who walks back into her friend’s life? Chad. Chad promises he’s getting a divorce, so her friend slept with him to have a baby.
At this rate, her friend has decided that she wants nothing more than to be a mom, and she’s willing to achieve that at any price, including having her baby daddy be a married man.
“I have been in the position his wife is in. I have friends whose lives have been ruined like this. So…I’ve found Chad’s wife on social media…and I really want to out him to his wife,” she continued.
I always am on the side of the spouse deserves to know if their partner is cheating on them, so I think she should absolutely tell Chad’s wife about his side chick.
If her friend is so desperate to have a baby, there are definitely other options available to her than using a married man as her baby daddy.
Sounds like her friend is trying to baby trap Chad, and that’s absolutely going to backfire on her, given what he did the last time she got pregnant with his child.
Do you think she would be wrong to expose Chad as a cheater to his clueless wife?
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