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Her Neighbor Accused Her Of Sneaking Through Her Bedroom Window And Sleeping With Her Husband

profile Emily Chan | Mar 26, 2026
Mar 26, 2026
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One day, TikToker Lola (@lolamaywilde) lay out on her driveway to tan in the sun for 30 minutes. While she was outside, she chatted with her sister and made one TikTok video. The next morning, she woke up to find a not-so-nice note from her neighbor taped to her bedroom window.

The note read, “Listen here, you little trashy [girl]. He will never leave me and the boys for you. You’re a homewrecking trash hole. He only wants what you’ve been opening up those and giving him. Come back on my property, my house, or our bed, and you will be arrested.”

It went on with more insults hurled at Lola and stated that if she were honest and bold enough to admit what she was doing, then maybe she would leave her husband, and Lola could have him.

The note was signed by Amber, and she had even written down her phone number.

Lola’s boyfriend called the number and left a voicemail. He told Amber that if she came back onto their property, they were going to call the police.

Soon enough, a second note arrived, taped to their front door instead. Again, it was Amber accusing Lola of sleeping with her husband.

The note read, “A couple of weeks ago, my son’s trail cam, he had put out behind our house to see if we had any deer, and that’s when, I guess, your daughter was on camera, coming into my window and into my bedroom and also my home. She has now been sneaking into my window numerous times this week. Has been every single time I’ve left my husband at home.”

Apparently, Amber almost caught them together, but the girl snuck out the window while her husband stopped her at the front door.

Amber declared that she would have her arrested for breaking and entering if she came into her house or vehicles again.

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Lola stated that she lived with her boyfriend, not her father. And she has not been climbing into anyone’s windows to sleep with anyone’s husbands. They ended up filing a police report and turned in the threatening notes as evidence.

In the comments section, some TikTok users shared their own experiences with being harassed by neighbors.

“This happened to me when I was 21, and apparently, I had over 600 FB message requests from her that were hidden from me. Her messages sounded weirdly similar to this,” commented one user.

“Imagine having so much self-loathing that instead of confronting your no-good cheating dog of a husband, you write a note on some stranger’s door, and it’s not even the person your husband is screwing,” declared another.

“I literally had the exact same situation with a neighbor 20 years ago. It was super weird and confusing,” added a third.

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By Emily Chan

Emily Chan is a writer who covers lifestyle and news content. She graduated from Michigan State University with a degree in... More about Emily Chan