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She Tracked Down Her Dad After Never Knowing Who He Was And Now He’s Asking The Internet If He Should Have Kept The Truth From Her About Why He Wasn’t In Her Life

He then added the story that M’s mom had told her, and he said M’s mom had also changed her last name to his.

“Speaking with M, she said that the story her mother had always told her was that we had been married my junior year in high school, a real May December relationship, and had been actively trying for our first baby when I suddenly walked out on her, forcing her to pack up and move halfway across the country to try to start over,” he wrote.

“Every time her mother spoke of me, I was that ‘cheating b******, who never paid child support, and wasn’t worth two cents’ or something similar.”

“Though M noted that her mother never tried to actively seek any support. I was a non-person, a kind of…donor in her family growing up.”

“Every story her mother told her about me had very little truth to it, and when it did have truth, M feels (as do I) that it was skewed in some manner.”

Here’s what the internet had to say.

“It sounds a lot more like mom wanted a baby and didn’t really want dad in the picture. Or else got pregnant by accident and latered because she didn’t want to deal with co-parenting.”

smuffleupagus

“The mom lied to her daughter her entire life and it honestly sounds like she used you to get pregnant, TBH.”

“She sounds like a master manipulator and being dead doesn’t absolve her from the damage she did to both of you.”

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