Her Boyfriend Packed Protection For A Trip She Wasn’t Even Going On And Now She’s Asking The Internet If He Deserves A Second Chance
A 21-year-old woman has been dating her 25-year-old boyfriend for a little more than 8 months now.
She thought everything was going well between them until he took a vacation a month ago without her.
The reason she didn’t go with him on this vacation was that her schedule didn’t allow for her to end up going.
Before her boyfriend left, he asked her if it would be alright to use a backpack that she owns, since it’s larger than the one he has and he wanted to use it to pack.
Her boyfriend went on his vacation, he came home, and he returned her backpack that he had borrowed.
Around 7 days after her boyfriend returned, he mentioned to her that he left money in a pocket of the backpack and he wanted to stop by her place to get it.
She didn’t think anything of it, and they both happened to forget the money in the backpack so her boyfriend never dropped by to grab it.
However, when she recalled him saying he left the money there recently, she picked up the backpack and moved it to an area of her place where he keeps a few things.
As she was moving it, she surprisingly found her boyfriend had packed protection. It wasn’t money at all that he had wanted to get out of the backpack’s pocket, it was that.
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“I asked him about it and at first, he claimed it was for in case he was sexually assaulted,” she explained.
“Eventually he admitted it was in case he slept with someone else. I was very upset since we have already talked about us being in a monogamous relationship.”
“He agreed that he made a mistake and I told him that while he was on thin ice I would try and deal with it.”
She has never been an envious girlfriend, and she’s fine with the friends he has that are girls. She has never considered that she would have to worry about them and him, and she never paused to think that she would have to be concerned about the parties he attends alone.
She’s spending time with her family now and since she’s been away, her boyfriend has been spending more time with his friends, which is worrying her.
She really is under the impression that her boyfriend is “doing something wrong” even though she has no concrete information to back this feeling up.
Her boyfriend did mention that he never slept with another woman when he went on that trip all alone and packed protection, but she still isn’t exactly buying that he’s faithful.
“I don’t know whether it’s worth trying to fix this, especially considering the relatively short length of the relationship, but I do love him,” she concluded.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“She says she knows he didn’t cheat, but she really doesn’t. Considering he planned this, odds are very high he did.”
“I don’t actually understand why you’re still together. He told you straight out that he was prepared to cheat on you.”
“Stop wasting your time. He isn’t going to be more in love with you in a year’s time. He isn’t going to be a more honourable person after you’ve wasted your 20s with him.”
“Wow…I don’t understand how you have forgiven him, to be honest. He was planning on cheating…like in a way that’s worse than spontaneous cheating. Like how premeditated murder is worse than heat-of-the-moment killing.”
“Red flag!!! He took them in case he was gonna hook up. Well first off he lied and said in case he was sexually assaulted.”
“So 1 he lied red flag and 2.. he thought about cheating. I would say he should be on more than thin ice he should be in a trash can he sounds like garbage.”
“Why would you just forgive him. He lied, then he admitted he was going to cheat on you, frankly, he probably did he’s just lying again.”
“Trickle truth there. His lie was even really bad. In case he got assaulted? Really?”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.
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