She Didn’t Bring Her Husband To Her Disabled Sister’s Wedding Party Because She Was Afraid He Was Going To Make Fun Of Her
A 31-year-old woman has a 27-year-old sister with an intellectual disability. Her younger sister lives at home with her mom and dad, as she does need help in her day-to-day life due to some issues with her mobility as well.
While her sister is mentally disabled, she comprehends a lot. A few months ago, their cousin got married, and her sister was sad about it afterward.
“Mom told me my sister started crying asking why she can’t have a wedding and wear a white dress and be a bride, it’s devastating and helpless to hear her speak like that,” she said.
Well, their aunt devised a wonderful plan for her sister, and a few days ago, she got a wedding invitation sent to her phone.
Her husband noticed it, and he wanted to know who was getting married. She told him that her mom and dad were putting together a wedding party, especially for her younger sister.
That was the plan that her aunt had come up with, and her family loved the idea.
Her husband was incredulous, and she explained the plan further to him, mentioning that her family wanted to give her sister a special day where she could get to wear a wedding dress and get to be a bride.
When her husband wondered about who the groom was going to be, she pointed out there would not be one.
The day was supposed to be all about her sister and making her feel special because she never would get the chance to be married.
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“He was still stunned trying to process what I said. He then asked “Are you people normal? Like are you being serious right now?!?!? and your parents are actually going through with and funding this stupid idea?” He then burst out laughing out of the blue,” she continued.
“I was annoyed I walked away from him and he still laughed about it later saying my parents probably have way too much money to waste apparently.”
“And asked if we’re getting this on the local news since it’s a “first”. He didn’t stop joking and making fun of it.”
Well, when the day of her sister’s wedding party arrived, her husband got dressed up in a suit and proceeded to tell her that he couldn’t understand why she was doing this.
She replied back to her husband that he could stay home now, but he didn’t think she was actually putting her foot down and uninviting him.
She insisted he was not going to be attending the party with her, before laying out that it was over the fact that she could not ensure he wouldn’t say something mean or hurtful to her family.
She then said if he was going to try to go to the party anyway, she would make sure he was not allowed inside.
Her husband was upset she made that choice, but she maintained it was all because of how he was acting.
Although he asked for her forgiveness, in the end, she walked away and went to the party without him.
When she came home from the party, he was still upset over what she did, and claimed to have been left out of “the fun.”
She stood up to her husband again, saying he was disrespectful towards her sister and the rest of her family members.
Her husband tried to claim that he behaved in the way that he did due to feeling that her mom and dad should have instead spent their money on something “useful and profitable” over her sister feeling special.
How would you deal with this?
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