She Went On A Date With A Creepy Guy She Met On Tinder, Then Asked The Internet If This Was Normal
A 26-year-old woman recently went on a date with a man she met on Tinder, and things got really weird.
As soon as she met this guy in real life for their date, she realized he didn’t quite look like the photos he used on his online date profile.
She really did not find him attractive, but she thought it would be mean to cut things short then and there, so she spent 2 hours speaking to him.
She figure she might change her mind about him if she got to talk to him, but everything only got…worse.
“We didn’t speak much before, he was very touchy-feely and after I let him know I didn’t like it he still continued,” she explained.
“He was always in my personal place and brought up how much money he made, how well of he was, how great in bed he was, how many girlfriends he had, all without me asking.”
“Like, yeah I wanna know about your job but you monologing for over 30 minutes how well of you are just doesn’t work for me.”
She also felt that telling someone about your intimate experiences on date one was a no-no.
When the date came to an end, this guy professed to her that he was very interested, but she replied back by saying she was not feeling the same way.
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He insisted she should “think about it” and then when they parted ways, he texted her nonstop.
Again, she told him she was not into him and was also not interested in going on another date, but this guy was not taking no for an answer.
He then sent her very personal photos of himself let’s just say, before saying she should let a few weeks go by and then see if she likes him when she’s ovulating and he understands her body more than she does.
Creepy, right? She unmatched him and was left wondering if this is normal online dating behavior.
She only spoke to him on Tinder, not on any other platforms, so she’s really hoping he doesn’t find her on social media.
“I’m still in shock. Is this what a “nice guy” is? Is this supposed to be normal today on tinder?”
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Even if 90% of men acted like this, you would be well within your rights to walk out once he started being creepy. Don’t let politeness override your good judgment. Your time is valuable.”
“Reading this, I thought you guys were 19, not 26! Girl. Learn to hit that block button ALOT sooner. This was a total waste of time, the guy is a psycho.”
“Someone bragging at length about how awesome they are and monologuing for 30 minutes on a first date is an easy “no sale”, male or female.”
“The ridiculous overtexting just looks desperate, not “alpha”. The arrogance of telling you how much better he knows your body … lordy lordy there’s really no upside here at all is there?”
“In the future, keep it to 20-30mins, and just say something came up and leave.”
“Staying on a date for 2 hours, showing interest in someone, and trying to get to know them when you really have no interest in doing so… is disingenuous and sends the wrong signals.”
“This is a United Nations full of red flags. Block this dude and be done with him. Unfortunately, there are some guys like this out there and sometimes it’s impossible to know how someone will react in person.”
“You didn’t do anything wrong — just keep setting those boundaries and being clear and honest if you don’t want to see someone again.”
“If anything I’d say to be more aggressive about those boundaries; don’t be afraid to cut a date short if you’re seeing this many red flags and you know it’s not going to work out. Use the block buttons liberally and don’t think about these guys too much.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.
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