Her Fiancé Is Insisting On Inviting The Boy Who Bullied Her Throughout Middle School And High School To Their Wedding
A 26-year-old woman is getting married to her 29-year-old fiancé soon, and they’re in the middle of planning everything still.
As they were going over a list of guests to invite to their wedding, she noticed a name her fiancé had put down on the list.
“It was my middle school and high school bully,” she explained. “He threw spitballs at me and put rotting food in my desk so all the other kids would think it was me.”
“He also had a shellfish allergy and could be around shellfish but not eat it. So he knew I heated up shellfish in the microwave and would stand in front of me not letting me get to the microwave telling me I was making him sick and then get all his friends to harass me.”
“Even when I wasn’t bringing shellfish he would tell me I had a fishy smell to me and even once called it a “dirty Chinese smell”. He also made the slanted eyes racist joke in front of me regularly.”
The bullying got to be so bad, that she wound up graduating high school early at the age of 16 so she could get out of there and away from this guy.
She had absolutely no idea that her fiancé was friends with her childhood bully because she had never seen her fiancé hang out or spend any time with her childhood bully when she was dating her fiancé.
Complicating things further, her childhood bully’s mom used to babysit her fiancé, and won’t attend the wedding unless her son is invited too.
She’s also upset her childhood bully’s mom is even invited because this woman was regularly spoken to by the principal of her school about the bullying and this woman did nothing to fix it.
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“I told my fiancé this and made it clear there’s no way I’m letting this guy come and he defended him basically saying everyone was an asshole in high school and we were adults now so I should forgive and forget,” she said.
The worst part about this was her fiancé then decided to bring her bully to her house and have him say sorry to her.
Her bully did apologize, though he insisted he did not recall ever bullying her throughout their childhood.
She told him to get off her front lawn, along with some other choice words, and now her fiancé is pissed at her for being mean to his friend.
She and her fiancé wound up screaming at one another over all this, and her fiancé is absolutely not taking her childhood bully off the guest list.
Her response to this was to tell her fiancé to marry her bully instead of her, and that’s where they now stand.
How would you deal with this?
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