Her Oldest Daughter’s Boyfriend Ate A Birthday Cake And Ruined A Party For Her Youngest Daughter So She’s Telling The Internet She Kicked This Guy Out
A mom of 2 is asking the internet for help after her oldest daughter’s boyfriend ruined her youngest daughter’s birthday by eating her birthday cake before her party even started.
This mom started out by explaining that her oldest daughter, 21-year-old Monica, is dating a guy a year younger than her who constantly spends time at their family’s house.
The time he spends there probably wouldn’t be an issue for any of them, except for the fact that he’s downright rude, and it’s now causing problems with her 14-year-old daughter Lily.
“It’s been affecting Lily and there had been instances where Monica’s boyfriend ruined Lily’s math project and ruined her camera by dropping it,” she wrote.
She felt she had no choice but to create some simple rules for him to abide by. The most basic rule is that he is not allowed to touch things in their house that belong to her daughter Lily.
Her oldest daughter Monica took issue with her laying down the lay. Monica told her she was “treating her boyfriend like a child.”
Monica feels like her boyfriend should treat their house like it is his as well, but this mom said he’s a guest, and he needs to respect things instead of damaging them.
Kind of hard to believe this guy is 20-years-old and not 2-years-old, but oh well here we are.
Lily had her birthday several days ago, and she special ordered a cake for the occasion. Her sister went to get it from the bakery and then placed it inside of their fridge.
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“We were upstairs while Monica’s boyfriend was in the living room,” she said.
“I went downstairs and into the kitchen to get the cake. I opened the refrigerator and saw that someone cut and took a piece of the birthday cake. I was infuriated I figured it was Monica’s boyfriend.”
Well, she wasn’t wrong. It was the boyfriend who rudely cut a piece out of Lily’s birthday cake right before her party was about to start.
She immediately confronted him about it, and he owned up to eating it. She ended up yelling at him until he apologized, saying he was just hungry.
She wondered if he could have eaten something else in the kitchen, and he admitted that he could have, but he really just wanted to eat the cake and didn’t want to wait for the party.
“I kept screaming at him that he ruined the entire party now Lily won’t even want to blow the candles when the cake looked like that,” she continued.
“He got defensive and said that it didn’t matter if he ate it before Lily blew the candles and that all those “birthday party” rules are lame and people should just eat the “freaking” cake once it arrives.”
“Also said that it wasn’t like he ate the whole thing. I lost it and told him to get out of my house.”
He tried to get Monica involved to “deal” with her. Monica told her mom it wasn’t ok for her to kick him out of the house after this.
She even begged, but this mom kicked him to the curb, and Monica went with him.
In the end, Lily’s party had to be set back 2 hours while they rushed to get a cake for her. Of course, this one could not be customized in such a short amount of time like her original one was.
Now, Monica is saying her mom owes her boyfriend an apology because it basically wasn’t a big deal.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“This dude seems insanely entitled. I’d ban him from my house entirely under threat of trespassing charges.”
“What an entitled, selfish jerk! It also seems like he is targeting Lily by breaking her camera and destroying her math project.”
“Who doesn’t know that a closed cake box is off-limits? Keep this guy out of your home and away from your youngest daughter.”
“Monica is also entitled as well based on the comment about the mother treating her boyfriend like it’s his house.”
“If both people can’t respect your rules Monica and the boyfriend it might be time for both to not come back.”
“The boyfriend isn’t entitled to anything in your house especially anything that’s not even Monica’s, but her reaction to you setting boundaries explains why he thinks he can get away with disrespect.”
“At this point, I would seriously consider banning him from the house permanently. How many times does he have to hurt your 14-year-old daughter, in her own home where she and her belongings should be safe before she starts to wonder why you aren’t protecting her?”
“Anyone else creeped out that this grown man is focused on touching stuff that belongs to and upsetting a 14-year-old girl?”
“Honestly though he needs to be yelled at. He’s an adult, but he’s acting like a child. I would have screamed at him too.”
“Usually, I would say there is little to no reason for screaming… but seriously, boundaries were already set.”
“Two chances were given and now for the third time, he went out of his way to do something that not only is obviously horrible etiquette but was also a deliberate violation of the house rules that were in place”.
“It seems much more like he did it just to get a reaction. That would clearly warrant someone to lose their…cool.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.
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