His Fiancée’s Sister Harasses And Comes Onto Him So He Doesn’t Want Her To Be The Maid Of Honor In The Wedding
A 24-year-old man is engaged to his fiancée, who is the same age as him. He popped the question to her pretty recently, and they just began deciding on what to do for their wedding.
The other day, his fiancée shared with him that she wants her younger 22-year-old sister to be the maid of honor, which he actually has a major problem with.
You see, his fiancée’s sister lived along with him and his fiancée for a bit, since their apartment is right by her campus.
His fiancée’s sister had some problems with campus housing, so she had only planned to live with him and his fiancée for one semester before she could return to campus housing.
“I had only met her a few times before this, but she seemed nice,” he explained. “However, once she moved in with us, that’s where things started.”
“She would say things like “you would look good in that” or “I wish I could find someone like you”. During the few months it divulged into her “accidentally” walking in on me in the shower, spilling things on me so that I have to change clothes, saying that she should be in my fiancée’s shoes, and constantly making comments about my body.”
“I told my fiancée about these things multiple times because it made me uncomfortable, but she kept dismissing me.”
“I also brought these concerns to her sister, but she kept playing it off as a joke. Nothing changed, but luckily, she moved out once she could go back to the dorms.”
And that’s the whole reason why he does not like his fiancée’s sister.
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He reminded his fiancée that he was really uncomfortable with her sister, which is his reason for not wanting her in their bridal party at all.
He also is concerned that his fiancée’s sister may do something at their wedding to destroy it, given the major crush she has on him.
“I also said that maybe I’d be okay with her being involved in the wedding in some other way, but I don’t feel comfortable with her being that involved and so close to both of us,” he said.
He did tell his fiancée it’s ultimately her choice who she wants to pick as her maid of honor, but she was not happy with him protesting in the first place.
His fiancée then brushed off his concerns by saying her sister always acts this way.
He tried his best to put his fiancée in his shoes and asked her how she would feel if he asked his brother to be his best man hypothetically knowing she felt uneasy about that choice.
His fiancée said she wouldn’t like that at all because it turns out she dislikes his brother, who is the nicest guy ever, for no reason.
“So I told her that there is a double standard here,” he continued. “My brother could get kicked out of the wedding party for just my fiancée not liking him, while her sister can’t get kicked out of it for her practically sexually harassing me.”
He mentioned to his fiancée that she needs to be more sympathetic here in order to make sure nothing happens on their wedding day.
His fiancée really did not want to hear that, and she insisted that having her sister be her maid of honor is going to make her happy, which he should want.
He ended up leaving because his fiancée refused to acknowledge what would make him happy at their wedding, and his fiancée accused him of being a jerk over all this.
How would you deal with this?
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