He Went On A Date Then Ditched The Girl Even Though He Drove And He’s Telling The Internet He Had A Valid Reason For Doing So
A 26-year-old man took a girl out for a date last week, and they initially met one another at the gym.
He’s been crushing on her for some time and decided to finally ask her out on a date. She agreed, and he picked out a Korean restaurant to take her to since he thought Korean BBQ would be a fun first date.
He drove to his date’s place and picked her up, then took them to the restaurant. They sat at the bar and chatted while they waited for their table to be ready for them.
“Then we go to our table and it’s got a huge grill with a fire on it and she instantly asks what this is (how does anyone not know what Korean bbq is?),” he explained.
“But I brushed it off and explained to her and she was like “but why do we have to do all the work? Lol (yes she said lol unironically) isn’t that their job?” I explained to her that’s what’s fun about it but we could always order off of the a la carte menu if she didn’t want bbq.”
“But she said “just make them do it for us” and insisted on calling the waitress over and asking her to put the meat on the grill and demanded to be served after it was ready. This elderly Korean lady had to shuffle between busy tables and come and flip the meat and serve our plates.”
“But wait. It gets worse.”
He is already feeling incredibly humiliated and he’s thinking he’s already finding out this girl has some serious red flags.
Despite feeling like this, he wanted to stick it out, especially since he hoped things would get intimate. Dinner comes to an end, their waitress hands them a menu so they can order dessert, and as soon as the waitress walks off, his date has something awful to say.
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She remarks that the restaurant “is a nightmare” before going in on the “useless immigrants” working there.
She made these terrible comments in a loud enough voice that people sitting near them could hear, and they began throwing her some looks while whispering among themselves.
When his date see them, she starts saying racist things towards them, and he just sat there, unable to believe what was coming out of her mouth.
“At this point, my jaw dropped,” he said. “I’m INDIAN and she used this in front of me. She saw my expression and went “oh no I don’t mean Latinos they’re fine. I LOVE Mexican food.” So it seems that she thinks I was Latino (my birth country never really came up as I speak with an American accent) and she uses a racist word against my own countrymen in front of me.”
Their dessert then arrives at their table, then he excuses himself to go to the bathroom. Meanwhile, instead of going to the bathroom, he makes a bee-line for the register to pay the bill.
He left a generous tip, then proceeded to exit the restaurant without her. Remember, he was the one who drove her to the place.
“I left her there (I drove us) and went back and blocked her number,” he continued.
He’s seriously considering changing gyms so he doesn’t need to see her ever again because he doesn’t even know what he would even say to her should he run into her.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“You did good. You did more than good. You paid and left. I would have left her stranded with 50% of the bill. Ghost her so good she can’t be able to reach you with a Ouija board.”
“…This is why you do something shorter and easier for either party to nope out on for a first date. Do “let’s meet for coffee” or “let’s go for a walk in the park” instead of committing to a sit-down meal – if there are no red flags during a 20-30minute coffee/walk, you can always suggest “That was fun, how about we go get ice cream or dinner?”
“But it gives you both the opportunity to keep a close eye out for red flags and compatibility problems, and either can choose to break everything off after 20-30mins and just walk away politely.”
“As soon as you figured out that this date was an irrecoverable disaster you should have said something like, “I find your behavior so unacceptable I am leaving now, I’ve called you an Uber to take you home, it is best if we have no further contact” and then left.”
“The way you left things there is no telling what drama she might stir up for you.”
“If you meet her at the gym, it all depends if she is going to talk to you or not. If not, just ignore her and enjoy the workout.”
“If she is going to talk to you and probably be a bit rude, you can tell her out loud you don’t go out with rude, entitled racists people.”
“You’re good, all the way good. You didn’t really even ditch her. You endured her for the full meal, endured the association to her in a public place, then paid and tipped well.”
“You gave her a few chances before calling time of death on that sitch.”
“Maybe she’ll learn something from it (no she won’t).”
“…You ditched her without saying anything! You should have paid, walk back to the table and tell her “Look, I really enjoyed you from a distance, but now that you are closer, I’m not enjoying you that much! By the way, I’m Indian! The food is paid, you can get yourself home!”. And you should have told her loud enough so that at least the tables around would listen.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say here.
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