His Wife’s Nephew Has Been Hoarding His Dirty Underwear And He’s Asking The Internet If It Was Wrong To Kick Him Out Of Their House When He Found Out About The Dirty Secret

A 29-year-old man is asking the internet for help after his wife’s nephew was caught hoarding his dirty underwear.

Their nephew started living in their house a few months ago because he was having issues with his mom.

This man admitted his sister-in-law is a terrible person, so he was more than happy to take his wife’s nephew in.

Their nephew’s dad also isn’t part of his life and any other family members that could help him live too far from where he goes to work and school.

So, their house seemed like the best fit.

“Don’t know when exactly the situation started only that I began noticing over the last couple of months that my boxer briefs were going missing whenever it was time for me to do laundry,” he said.

“As in I’d only find a couple in my hamper when I’d try doing laundry. I thought it was weird but didn’t think anything of it.”

“I keep it in the closet so figured maybe they fell out when I toss all my dirty clothes in there.”

“But it started to get even more noticeable when I actually had to buy more because I had no idea why they were disappearing. My wife just thought I was losing them by not paying attention.”

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Not sure how you can just organically lose that amount of underwear, but ok. If I was his wife I definitely would think something is going on.

One day, he ended up in the guestroom where their nephew is staying. He needed to go through the closet in order to find the supplies that he was looking for.

It turns out, he didn’t find supplies, but he did shockingly find all of his missing underwear in a huge pile.

He went to his wife and wanted to know if she knew why his underwear was in his nephew’s room or how it ended up there, but she didn’t have any answers for him.

She was as confused as he was about this entire situation.

They both had a sit-down conversation with their nephew, and even though he asked their nephew if he knew where his underwear went, he denied knowing anything.

Their nephew is the worst at lying, so they could clearly tell he had stolen the underwear.

“It was an awkward conversation. He kept refusing it was him who took them then when he did confess he didn’t wanna say why,” this man continued.

“Honestly I just felt grossly violated. He was looking through my hamper and taking out my underwear for god knows how long, keeping them hidden in his room for I don’t know what reasons and it was an uncomfortable thought.”

He confided in his wife that he no longer felt comfortable with their nephew living with him. Their nephew was then sent back to live with his mom.

His wife ended up telling her other sister about the situation. This sister then took it upon herself to tell the entire family about their nephew hoarding dirty underwear, and now his wife’s family is quite upset….with his wife!

Nobody thinks it was ok for them to kick their nephew out, considering he didn’t steal anything important like money.

Here’s what the internet had to say.

“Your wife’s nephew needs help, and your feelings of discomfort are valid. At 18 he should know better than to do that kind of thing.”

vanillaSprout

“I am 100% positive if he was stealing your wife’s underwear NO ONE would blame her for wanting him out.”

“And while it’s weird, gross, and intrusive no matter when in the laundry cycle it’s taken…it’s particularly creepy that it’s dirty. He was going into your bedroom, going through your hamper, and STEALING YOUR DIRTY UNDERWEAR.”

“He then took so many pairs you had to buy new ones and kept them hidden in his closet. I don’t care who you are, why you do it….invading the privacy of someone’s bedroom to steal and collect their dirty underwear is a hard no.”

“For the family who thinks you are in the wrong, please tell them that since they find this acceptable enough it should be overlooked that they should invite him to stay with them.”

angel2hi

“That’s creepy, and he’s old enough to know why that’s wrong.”

Lanky-Temperature412

“It’s incredibly rare for a teenager to take someone else’s underwear, much less a male family member’s, and store them in secret. You mention your SIL, his mother, is awful and you don’t know the details.”

“Has he been abused? His actions may or may not be sexual, they could be for entirely different reasons, and his reluctance to admit suggests he’s embarrassed by his behavior rather than a proud trophy hunter.”

“Either way, I strongly suggest you get the boy into therapy with a specialized child psychologist ASAP, I strongly suspect that there’s something sinister going on here and he needs help before something worse happens.”

PrudentDeparture4516

You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to him here.

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