She Told Her Date She Was Going To Use The Bathroom But She Left Him And Now She’s Asking The Internet If She Was Wrong
A 20-year-old woman met a 23-year-old man on a dating app, and she thought they were really hitting it off.
They already had gone on two dates together, and for their third date, this guy asked her to come to see a movie with him.
“He paid and everything,” she explained. “He mentioned that he would bring a small dose of chocolate edibles to “enhance the movie experience”, and I was not opposed.”
It’s legal in the state that she lives in, so she figured it wouldn’t be a big deal.
Anyway, her date told her to get to the movie theater an hour before the movie began so they could chat and hang out.
“When I got there, he invited me into his car,” she said. “I took a seat, and he immediately handed me 4 pills. These pills were medium-sized, circular, and red.”
“He told me they were 2.5 milligrams each and that he got them from a dispensary. Now, I’ve taken edibles before, and I was under the impression that it would be chocolate. I have NEVER heard of an edible in the form of a pill.”
“My heart dropped. I had no idea what was in those pills. I was very hesitant and I told him I would take them during the movie instead, then I put them in my pocket. I got very quiet and anxious, but I figured I was just overthinking.”
They then headed into the movie theater, with about half an hour to go until the movie began. She was extremely nervous since she was at this point under the impression that this guy was going to try to drug her.
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As it got closer to show time, they walked in and took their seats. Nobody else was in there except for the two of them, and that just made her more unsettled.
“He then he said he would buy me a drink (This movie theater had a bar in it),” she continued.
“He then said something along the lines of “I don’t know if you’ve ever heard of drops you put in drinks to change the color, but I brought some” Now, as a woman, this scared the f*** out of me. I mean, he literally told me he was gonna put something in my drink.”
She was headed for a complete and utter panic attack after he made the comment about the drink.
She said to her date that she needed to go use the bathroom, and a soon as she was safely inside, she called up one of her friends to tell them about what was happening.
Her friend told her that it was time to get out of there and that’s exactly what she did. She left. She took off running for her car, drove away without telling her date, and blocked his number.
When she arrived at her house, she figured she should look up what those pills really were since she had noticed some numbers printed on them.
She found out that the pills were exactly what her date had said they were; edibles. She felt bad because her date had paid for her movie ticket, he paid for her snacks, he got her edibles and was about to purchase a drink for her, and she had left.
She thinks the color-changing drops her date had been telling her about were actually just that and not roofies, so now she’s feeling awful about considering the worst while in the moment.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“That whole thing sounds sketchy…Taking pills you don’t know the source of or randomly adding stuff to your cocktail sounds super weird if you aren’t close to someone, I don’t think you’re on the wrong at all.”
“Women should learn to trust their gut over being polite or nice because so often bad people will take advantage of their politeness and put them in a bad situation.”
“My policy is that it’s better to disappoint a genuinely nice person than to put myself in a dangerous situation.”
“Yes!! I came here to say I wish I had trusted my instincts like OP when I was in a dangerous situation and my alarm bells were going off like crazy.”
“I learned my lesson the hard way. I was polite and I stayed and I was sexually assaulted. It’s been 9.5 years and I’m still pretty messed up about it.”
“No one’s feelings are worth your safety if you feel like you’re in danger.”
“If he bought them legally at a dispensary, he should’ve had the container they came in so you could read the label. The fact that he just had the loose pills around is very sketchy. I wouldn’t even take a loose Aspirin someone tried to give me…”
“… If he doesn’t empathize with why you did what he did, he’s every bit the creep you suspected he was.”
“Yeah he made himself seem scary if that was by accident or he had more sinister motives does not matter. And stay in public for frick’s sake! Always in public!”
You can read the rest of the advice the internet had for her here.
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