Chip Chick
“You acknowledged your ex made sacrifices and you want to show gratitude. I would say that makes you a caring person who wants to do right by the mother of his kid.”
“It’s one thing if she would be pestering you for money or trying to take advantage of you, but it’s another if they’re down on their luck.”
“It’s important to take care of the people that got you where you are, and that you’ve spent a significant amount of your life with. You ultimately went separate paths but that doesn’t mean you should watch them crumble.”
“What you did was incredibly generous, and I’m sure it doesn’t go without appreciation. That kind of act is honestly life-changing for the recipient, and incredibly rewarding for you as well.”
“I understand your wife’s point of view, but I think she should really try to widen her horizons to see the bigger picture, you’re not being extorted, you’ve made the decision yourself as an adult and weighed any repercussions.”
“…Your money your rules. Good on you for taking care of people that were an important part of your life.”
“The new wife is bothered b/c it looks like an act of love. It may be that…he loves and respects the mother of his child. That’s a different type of love and she’s not mature enough to get that.”
“I would not have an issue with my husband helping his ex in hard times as long as it doesn’t go beyond that.”
“I would want my kids’ father to do the same if I needed him.”
