His Wife Used To Be His Babysitter And She Just Revealed That She Essentially Groomed Then Manipulated Him Into Being Perfect For Her

A 21-year-old man is married to his wife, who is 10 years older than him. His wife used to be his babysitter when he was 6 or 7, and that’s how they initially met.

He always had a crush on his wife when he was growing up, but he never in his wildest dreams thought that would lead to anything given the fact that she’s a decade older than him.

As he grew older, he found out that his wife really liked him too. He and his wife began dating when he was 18 and she was 28.

The other day, his wife happened to leave her phone accidentally near him, and he saw a ton of texts blowing up her phone.

Concerned that there might be some kind of emergency going on, he looked at his wife’s text messages, which is something he never, ever does.

He noticed that the non-stop texts were all coming from 2 of his wife’s friends. He read the messages and was surprised to see what they contained.

Essentially, his wife revealed to her friends that she had manipulated him into falling in love with her before getting pregnant (they have a child together).

His wife told her friends this secret because she finally felt bad and wanted to get it all off of her chest.

He could see over the texts that his wife’s friends were absolutely freaking out on her for what she did to him.

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“I asked her about it and she honestly looked very sad and remorseful,” he explained. “She admitted to manipulating me mentally to get me to marry her, and she confessed that she dated me when I was younger because she could basically make me the “perfect husband” that she wanted.”

“She also admitted to manipulating me and stopped taking BC so that I could get her pregnant.”

He couldn’t believe what his wife had owned up to, and she tried to apologize to him relentlessly.

He did tell his wife that he would try to not think about the secret she revealed, and she agreed to let him have some space to consider everything.

He has no idea how to feel right now. He does love her, and they do have a family, so he’s not sure if he should pretend he never told her this secret, or if he should just “face” what she did to him.

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