After Her Sister Tried To Hook Up With Her Fiancé Behind Her Back, She Decided Not To Invite Her To Her Wedding

A 21-year-old woman is engaged to her 23-year-old fiancé, whom she has been with for 3 years now.
She has a sister who is a year younger than her, and when she started to date her fiancé, she and her sister were pretty close.
Unfortunately, when her sister was almost 18, has had an enormous disagreement with their family, and her sister wound up running away from their family home.
Then, her sister got involved with an abusive guy who was 7 years older than her.
Although her sister wasn’t really on speaking terms with their family, she made it a point to keep speaking to her since she was afraid she might need some kind of help at some point.
She was right about that, and her sister wound up staying at her house for several evenings recently.
“During this time, she told my fiancé that she used to have a crush on him when he and I first started dating,” she explained.
Several months after her sister said this to her fiancé, her sister sent her a text message asking her for help again because her boyfriend had put his hands on her.
She was at work when her sister sent the text, so she asked her fiancé if he would be able to go get her sister and make sure that she was ok.

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Since her fiancé was not ok with picking her sister up and bringing her back to their home, she mentioned he could take her to a nearby park that was very busy so he would feel comfortable.
“My sister doesn’t have almost any friends and has a personality disorder making friendships hard to maintain,” she said.
“While they were at the park, my sister looked at my fiance and said, “You know if you wanted to do anything, I wouldn’t tell anyone.” My fiancé immediately took her home and told me what had happened.”
“I have had very limited contact with my sister since and made it abundantly clear I do not wish to pursue a relationship with her at this point. I still see her at family functions but other than that we are no contact.”
Now that she is beginning to move the ball forward on organizing her wedding, she let her mom know that she’s not planning to invite her sister at all.
Her mom got mad at her and insisted that she has to invite her sister simply because she’s still a part of their family.
What she doesn’t understand about her mom’s argument is that she doesn’t speak to many of their family members for various reasons, and she isn’t inviting her cousins, uncles, or aunts to her wedding.
She did mention to her mom that her sister tried to hook up with her fiancé behind her back, and her mom insisted it had to be “a big misunderstanding.”
She refused to believe her mom spinning things in this way, and then her mom tried to say that her sister can’t help her behavior because of her personality disorder.
“Except I also have the same personality disorder,” she continued. “This is not the first time my mom has enabled her or tried to downplay stuff either.”

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“I told my mom that having a personality disorder doesn’t excuse what my sister did, and I still want no contact with her and do not think she deserves to come to our wedding.”
“I love my mom and have made it very clear that neither I nor my fiancé, want my sister at our wedding.”
“We are paying for the wedding and my sister is not getting invited either way. However, other members of my family also think my fiancé and I are wrong for not forgiving my sister and including her.”
How would you handle this situation?
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