Chip Chick
She, her boyfriend, and her sister walked up to the bridal boutique, only to find out they couldn’t go inside without an appointment.
As they made their way over to their car, she teased her boyfriend that it was not fair of him to take her wedding dress shopping since she cannot wear one anytime soon given the fact that they’re not even engaged.
That evening, her sister turned in for the night and she confronted her boyfriend about the wedding dresses.
“…I told him that the dress incident hurt my feelings because it felt like he was dangling something I want in front of me when I knew I couldn’t actually have it,” she said.
“He got upset and said he just thought I would be fun, which I understand as we talk about our future a lot, but that didn’t change my feelings.”
“He then said he felt I was pressuring him into marrying me and that we’ve only been together 1.5 years.”
She does not agree with him at all, since they have not done a single thing in their relationship on what other couples would consider to be a normal timeline, and she thinks that if they want to be together forever it doesn’t matter how long they have been dating they should just get married.
Her boyfriend maintained that he considered looking at the wedding dresses to be an exciting activity for them, but she went and blew things out of proportion.
“Mind you, before we meet he was previously engaged to someone he was with since high school but they broke up a couple of months afterward so I understand why he might have hesitation with me, but I don’t understand why he would tell me wants a future with me then,” she continued.
After their chat, her boyfriend became agitated and accused her of trying to force him to do what he doesn’t want to do.
He then went to sleep on their couch, and she has no idea if she really did something bad here or not by confronting him about his lack of commitment while wanting to look at wedding dresses.
