She Overheard Her Boyfriend Telling His Best Friend That His Ex Was Better In Bed Than She Is

A 23-year-old woman has been seeing her 25-year-old boyfriend for a bit more than 1 year, and he’s her first serious boyfriend.
Several months ago, her boyfriend moved into her place, and she was under the impression their relationship was going great.
As everyone does at some point, she’s feeling that she does have a tendency to struggle with insecurity.
Her boyfriend has had serious relationships before her, so she thinks that perhaps she’s struggling with insecurity since this is her first real relationship in contrast.
Additionally, her boyfriend is far more experienced, and she is more reserved and awkward when it comes to social situations.
“But last week my insecurities have just boiled over when his friend came over they were talking in the living room of the flat while I was working in the bedroom,” she explained.
“The door was closed so I guess they didn’t realize that I could still hear them and as they were talking.”
“My bf said that his ex was the best…that he had ever had and went on to say that she knew what to do a lot better than I did and they were both laughing about it.”
Ouch, right? That definitely would hurt anyone to hear those words come out of their partner’s mouth!

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“And I know this is just guy talk and I really shouldn’t have been listening in, and I’m sure that I’ve said my share of things to my friends that if he had heard he wouldn’t be to happy about,” she said.
Despite her best efforts to be understanding, she can’t help but feel humiliated while being left doubting herself.
She certainly has been sensitive about the topic of intimacy in their relationship, and what her boyfriend said confirmed all of her worst fears.
The fact that her boyfriend laughed as well crushed her.
“It feels like this huge insurmountable thing at the moment which I’m not sure how I can get over,” she continued.
“I just feel so embarrassed about it and since then whenever he’s tried to be intimate with me I just feel too uncomfortable and stop it straight away.”
Her boyfriend is 100% starting to suspect that there’s a problem, but she hasn’t addressed this with him because she doesn’t know what to say.
She’s worried that if she does bring this up to him, there’s no way to do it without coming across as pitiful as can be.
She also knows in her heart that there’s not a single thing her boyfriend could say to reassure her or give her some confidence back since clearly, he was being honest about his ex’s bedroom talents.
How do you think she should discuss this with her boyfriend and what can she possibly say? You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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