He Got His Friend With Benefits Pregnant And He’s Not Sure How To Tell The Girl That He’s Currently Seeing

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A couple of months ago, a 28-year-old man entered into a friends with benefits kind of arrangement with a 33-year-old woman named Stacy.

Their relationship never progressed beyond just being interested in one another physically, and Stacy would only come over to his house to be intimate with him, sleepover for the night, and then leave his place in the morning right away.

Stacy let him know that she was taking the pill, so he didn’t think to try another means of protection during their relationship.

Things came to an end between him and Stacy after she started wanting to be more than just friends with benefits.

“I went out on a night out and she blew my phone up asking where I was with multiple calls and texts,” he explained.

“I saw this as a red flag and called the FWB off. I matched with a girl (Lucy) [29F] on a dating app and started talking after this and went out on a date on the Friday after this and I fell absolutely head over heels and we’ve seen each other pretty much every day and night since.”

Although he’s falling fast for Lucy, he hasn’t done anything physical with her yet as he really wants to take his time here and do things the right way since he feels a big “connection” to her.

One week after meeting Lucy and taking her out on their first date together, he received a pretty shocking text from Stacy.

Stacy texted him a photo of a pregnancy test that was clearly marked positive. Stacy was pregnant, and she filled him in that she was planning to go ahead with having her baby.

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“I’ve never felt how I about someone as I do about Lucy, not this quickly,” he said. “I deleted bumble and stopped talking to anyone I was after our date because I knew it was worth focusing on.”

Obviously, he needs to fill Lucy in on the fact that he got Stacy pregnant, but first, he’s having Stacy do another test to be certain.

He’s struggling with how to break the news to Lucy, and he’s worried that she’s not going to be alright with him getting his friend with benefits pregnant, especially since they have not been in one another’s lives for that long at all.

How can he break this big news to Lucy in a way that will make her want to continue seeing him?

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