Her Boyfriend Said Another Girl They Know Is Flawless And When She Told Him That Hurt Her Feelings He Called Her Insecure
A 25-year-old woman has a 27-year-old boyfriend, and recently they decided to go on vacation. Some of her boyfriend’s best friends came too, along with the girls they are dating.
One girl in particular that her boyfriend’s best friend is dating is named Madi, and her boyfriend seems kind of obsessed with her.
When they were on vacation, her boyfriend mentioned feeling super bad for Madi being in a relationship with his best friend, since his best friend is really “high maintenance”
He then let it slip that he spoke to Madi all alone, and Madi said she wished she was a single woman.
One day after they arrived home from their vacation, her boyfriend again brought up Madi to her.
“He said, almost in awe, “she’s like your typical Florida girl, she’s just a really good looking girl. Like she has literally no flaws,” she explained.
“I didn’t say anything at first and then he said “but she’s just super annoying and loud”. It hurt in the moment because although I didn’t want to, I started comparing myself to her.”
“She’s super skinny and has perfect skin. I have so many flaws, my bf has never said that about me- that I’m perfect.”
“If anything he comments on my weight, makes fun of me when I wear makeup, etc.”
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When her boyfriend said all of this about Madi being so flawless, she didn’t let him know that it really did make her feel bad.
She brought it up to him at a later time that she was hurt by his comments praising Madi, and her boyfriend refused to acknowledge her feelings.
Her boyfriend accused her of being insecure while having zero confidence, before also insisting it’s her own issue to deal with.
Her boyfriend additionally told her that she needs to suck up and deal because he does find women other than her attractive.
At the end of all of this, her boyfriend tried to twist things around and say that Madi is clearly perfect but he bets she is not secure.
She found this remark odd since Madi really is a secure woman who definitely knows she’s hot.
“He also refuses now to invite me to hang out with them all together,” she said. “He said I made it weird by getting upset over his comment and all I do is start drama.”
Do you think there’s any way she can move on from all of this?
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