Her Sister Is Seeing A Married Guy And She’s Concerned He’s Just Taking Advantage Of Her Sister
A young woman has a 24-year-old sister named Ashley who is currently seeing a married guy 7 years older than her.
Ashley has told her that this guy is still married though he claims to be separated from the woman he is married to.
This guy has not filed for divorce, nor even told his wife that he plans on doing that. Ashley has been seeing this guy for close to 2 whole years, and she’s beginning to grow concerned that this guy is just taking advantage of her sister.
She’s never had a good feeling about this guy, and Ashley first began sleeping with him before dating him.
“She knew he cheated on his wife before and still got together with him because they like each other and he’s not living with his ex-wife anymore so he’s sort of separated,” she explained.
“She hasn’t met his family yet and he hasn’t told his family about her which I think is super odd especially if he’s getting divorced.”
You know what else is odd? This guy works from home, at the house he used to live in with his wife, but then he heads to his apartment after work.
She truly believes that this guy is going to hurt Ashley in some way or that he is not telling Ashley the truth at all.
Given the fact that this guy has a history of cheating on his wife on more than one occasion, she believes that there’s a good chance that this guy is still completely with his wife and lying to Ashley with no intention of getting divorced.
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Ashley frequently comes to her with relationship problems, and she’s growing weary of being there for Ashley.
“As much as I love her and want to be supportive of her happiness, I refuse to watch it crash and burn at the expense of Ashley but I don’t want to overstep and tell her what I truly think about this and ruin our relationship,” she said.
“Ashley has so much to give and just loves with her whole heart and wears her heart on her sleeve whereas I’m detached and analytical which also makes it hard for me to empathize with her when she needs my support/advice especially because I know I would never be in this situation.”
This guy has insisted to Ashley that he has every intention of marrying her and having children with her, though that seems like it’s never going to happen.
She doesn’t really want to tell Ashley the truth about what she thinks, but she also doesn’t want to be as close to Ashley and have to hear about all of the problems that Ashley has with this guy.
As much as she would like to tell Ashley she’s done listening to her and being there for her, Ashley as nobody else in her life that can take her place, so she feels “stuck.”
Do you think she should be honest with Ashley?
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