He’s In Love With A Bridesmaid That’s Going To Be In His Wedding
A man in his 30s used to be dating a woman named Lily a whole decade ago. Back then, Lily had a bunch of friends, and one friend that Lily had in particular, Robin, he thought was gorgeous.
One evening, while Lily wasn’t hanging out with their group of friends but he was, he got pretty wasted along with Robin.
He ended up making out with Robin, until one of his guy friends caught them in the middle of a kiss and that all stopped.
“To this day I don’t know if she was into me that night or it was just the alcohol,” he explained. “After this, we texted a bit and did hang out one time by ourselves, but nothing happened, we just watched a movie and chatted.”
“Then through text, I suggested leaving Lily and we could try things, but she turned it down.”
He wasn’t certain if Robin rejected his advances due to not liking him, or due to her being kind and not wanting to ruin what he had with Lily.
One month after his makeout sesh with Robin, Lily learned what went down that night. Although he definitely cheated on Lily, she continued to stay in a relationship with him.
Several months after all of this, Robin began dating his friend who walked in on them kissing. Eventually, Lily did dump him and move on, and he knew it had to do with his feelings for Robin.
Newly single, he ended up at a party that Robin and her boyfriend were at, and things got out of hand.
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He flirted with Robin, and then his friend made it clear to him that it wasn’t cool of him to do. After the events at the party, he shoved his feelings for Robin deep down and pretended they didn’t exist.
Although he pretended he didn’t have feelings for Robin, he still did, and he spent a lot of time wondering what his life would be like if he was with her.
Now, he’s engaged and about to get married to a woman named Marsha, who he does love, but he can’t stop thinking about Robin.
Robin has since gone on to marry his friend and have a baby with him, so he does finally realize that he and Robin are not ever going to happen.
“Marsha has absolutely no idea how I feel,” he said. “She knows that I kissed someone while I was with Lily, just not who.”
“Marsha and Robin have also become good friends in the time we’ve been together and has even asked Robin to be one of her bridesmaids at our wedding.”
“So now I face the issue of not only having my beautiful bride walk towards me down the aisle, but just before that having Robin walk towards me, also looking amazing, but it won’t end in the way I would like it to.”
Right after he proposed to Marsha, he found himself increasingly fantasizing about Robin and he’s starting to doubt if he should go through with his wedding since he’s definitely in love with Robin.
He also thinks he shouldn’t be with Marsha, and instead, should get to be with Robin.
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