After 3 People In The Bridal Party Tore Apart His Bride-To-Be, He’s Thinking Of Kicking Them All Out Of The Wedding
A 20-year-old man is engaged to his 19-year-old bride-to-be, and he knows they’re young to be tying the knot, but he’s ready to spend the rest of his life with her.
Now, his fiancée does have a fair amount of issues with her mental health, which she is starting to address.
She’s also been working out, keeping their place clean, and doing something about having her medication adjusted to better help her.
“It’s important to understand that, as a person, my fiancée is the person I fell in love with and want to spend the rest of my life with, and that most of our issues, derive from her brain deciding not to bother balancing her brain chemistry,” he explained.
“Yesterday, one of my close friends called me and explained how two bridesmaids, the best man, the matron of honor, as well as someone else all got together in a group call to talk about my wedding.”
“This turned into a group roast of my fiancée and how she was just trying to trap me, that she’s lazy, and that she doesn’t deserve me.”
Although bridesmaids historically are close to the bride, that’s not the situation for his wedding. His fiancée’s bridesmaids happen to all be his best friends that his fiancée then got close to.
So, since he’s extremely close to all of the bridesmaids as well as the maid of honor and his best man, he was so upset to find out that these people were trashing his fiancée.
All of these people have been friends with him for well over 7 years, so he felt let down to know that they didn’t like his fiancée.
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He decided to confront the maid of honor first over text, and she straight-up lied to him about the awful things that everyone had said about his fiancée.
After hearing nothing from his best man, he then texted him, only to find that his best man didn’t have his back either.
His best man attempted to say that they all were just concerned for him, before claiming to be worried that his fiancée would try to baby trap him.
“I stood up for my fiancée multiple times, I don’t think they understand that my fiancée and I have very strong personalities, and they often clash,” he said.
“But we have ALWAYS come to a resolution of some sort. We oftentimes end up closer after arguments than anything, it’s just the way we are.”
“I have heard plenty of problems about their partners; I couldn’t imagine going behind their backs to talk..and say the negative things they were saying about my fiancée.”
He knows that none of his friends said what they did out of concern, especially since everything that they discussed was directed at destroying his fiancée.
He’s feeling confused as to how any of his friends in the bridal party could have an issue with his fiancée at all since she has always gone out of her way to only be nice to them.
He did tell his fiancée about what was said, and she sobbed for hours on end over it. She genuinely thought his friends were her friends too, though that’s obviously not the case since friends don’t backstab like that.
So far, he has not spoken to anyone in the bridal party about the issues they caused, but he’s convinced the best thing to do is to kick the offenders out of their wedding.
Do you agree that’s the best way to handle this?
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