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An Old Friend Sent Her An Invite To Her Wedding And She Isn’t Sure How To Say No

This then happens again for one more occasion.

Feeling emotionally drained from the friendship, she decided to pull back, and the following year ahead would make her very uneasy.

Months went by with no word from her friend. She missed her birthday, a pet’s passing, and other minor occurrences where the friend never reached out to make sure she was okay.

Being the bigger person, she still reached out for birthdays and other life events to wish her friend the best.

Eventually, they sit down and have a discussion where they both realize that they had similar issues with each other, and while they would remain friends and catch up every once in a while, the friendship is nothing like it used to be.

After some time has passed, the hurt friend gets an invitation to her friend’s wedding. However, she is not excited about the situation and feels that it may be best for her not to attend after all that they have been through.

She also wonders if the friend sent the innovation out of guilt or pity.

Should she attend the wedding and try to mend what is left of the relationship? Or has this friendship passed its expiration date, and she should politely decline and move on?

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