Her Boyfriend Exchanged Underwear Photos With A Girl He Met At A Bar And She’s Thinking Of Leaving Him
A 22-year-old woman started seeing her 25-year-old boyfriend 7 months ago, and before they made things official, they talked to one another for more than 1 year.
She is in a long-distance relationship with him, so that puts a strain on their relationship big time.
The other day she was in bed watching TikTok videos with her boyfriend when they saw a video a girl did regarding her boyfriend being unfaithful.
She then jokingly turned to her boyfriend and said she wanted to look through his phone to make sure he wasn’t doing anything shady to her.
Her boyfriend actually forked over his phone without a problem, and she started digging through all of his social media apps.
He didn’t bat an eye as she looked at his messages on all of the platforms, but when she came to the final social media app and opened it up, she found a conversation between him and a girl she had not ever met before.
She demanded that he open up that conversation so she could do an in-depth investigation, yet he completely refused to do that for her.
She was shocked and knew his refusal had to mean one thing. “I am beyond shocked mouth opening and closing like a fish, surely this much be a joke,” she said.
“Unfortunately not. I just had spent the morning being intimate with this man and now I felt sick to my stomach.”
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Her boyfriend didn’t say a word as she got up and left his place to take a bus back to her own home.
She cried as she sat there on the bus thinking about her boyfriend speaking to this other girl and wondering what was in those messages.
“Later he tells me that he didn’t know why he did it, that it meant nothing,” she continued. “He spoke to this girl for 3 days straight…not to mention he met her in person: he was grabbing drinks for his friends at the bar and this girl tells him he’s hot so puts her number in his phone and this man just lets her!”
“Not only that over the next two days they message and she sends him a picture in underwear and he also sends pictures of himself in the same.”
“He says that’s all that happened it meant nothing, there was nothing physical. He only messaged at night and spoke to me during the day as if nothing happened.”
What’s the most upsetting to her is that at the start of their relationship, she did speak to her boyfriend about what she considers to be cheating.
Swapping underwear photos with another girl absolutely crosses lines for her, and it’s something that they already discussed early on.
“I feel so worthless that he would not only cheat on me but at least have the decency to delete the evidence,” she added.
She’s crushed that he did this, and since she found that conversation on her boyfriend’s phone, he has really stepped things up to act like a devoted boyfriend.
She’s only more upset that her boyfriend is trying to be so great to her, as she believes he should have made this kind of an effort all along; not as some kind of a peace offering.
She did ask her boyfriend what he would do in her shoes, and he maintained that he would “forgive” her and be able to get over it, which contradicts what he told her he would do in a hypothetical cheating situation.
She’s really in love with her boyfriend, and she’s aware that overlooking his behavior and staying with him will not be respectful to her.
Do you think she should stay with him?
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