She’s Thinking Of Leaving Her Boyfriend Since He Keeps Promising To Propose To Her Yet Never Does
Picture this; you have been in a relationship for quite some time now. You’re madly in love, and the one thing on your mind currently is moving forward with the next chapter in your life, which is marriage.
However, your partner is not on the same page, and you decide to put pressure on the matter.
When it comes to engagements/proposals, when is the appropriate time?
One thing is for sure; you should know your partner exceptionally well before moving forward with the process.
It’s important to discuss life goals, such as if you both want children or where you want your future home to be located.
Sure, some people consider these questions to be asked later on within your relationship, but let’s face it, it’s better to get these questions out of the way up front rather than finding out a couple of years down the road that your partner doesn’t want kids.
If you are both on the same page and know you want to spend the rest of your lives together, why does the official ceremony matter?
A couple has been dating for 5 1/2 years now and living together for almost three years. They have a great relationship, minus the fact that the girlfriend wants to be engaged as soon as possible.
Unfortunately, the boyfriend has been so annoyed by her nagging him about a wedding that he has lost interest in proposing any time soon.
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I mean, do you blame him? She has put an immense amount of pressure on the topic and told the situation to too many family members and friends that the circumstances have caused her to have terrible anxiety, pushing her into therapy and getting on Lexapro.
We get it. She wants to be engaged. However, instead of constantly pushing for a ring, she may want to find other avenues.
Maybe someone who is looking to pursue their dreams of marriage right off the bat, and not years down the line.
They both agreed that they would be engaged by the end of summer. But, come August, this was not the case.
She was upset and asked him why he had not proposed, and he told her that the only reason he said he would propose at the end of summer was to shut her up! Yikes!
He has repeatedly stated that the engagement will happen when the time is right. So she decided to be a bit more patient.
October rolls around, their anniversary month, and she still does not have a ring. Saddened by the situation, she lets it go and hopes this will not be the case around the holidays. She was sadly mistaken.
“I finally couldn’t hold in my feelings anymore and I told him that I could not wait much longer and he was putting me through hell,” she explained.
“He yelled at me, saying it’s my fault that we weren’t engaged yet because I won’t stop bringing it up, and any normal girl would never bring it up this much and to just let it happen, and he forbid me to ever bring it up again. He also told me many times I am crazy and insane and can’t just let it go.”
After this reaction, who would stick around?
At the end of the day, it’s important to remember your worth and know that if you are ready to move on with your life and the other person is not, maybe it’s time to reevaluate the situation and move on to someone else.
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