Katharina Buczek
Moreover, she addressed how the perception of “rudeness” is a two-way street.
“You may also be surprised to hear that maybe you are the rude one in their country,” the TikToker said.
She explained that if you ever need help while in France and approach a stranger by saying, “excuse me,” this is already seen as impolite.
“You are already being rude without meaning to because you forgot the magic word– bonjour!” the user explained.
Her informative video reached over two hundred and forty thousand people. It also racked up twenty-six thousand likes. Many commenters agreed with the misperception of French people and also asked for additional tips on French etiquette.
“I spent eight days in Paris several years ago with my two young children, and the only rude people I encountered were other Americans!” wrote one commenter.
“I have never encountered a rude person in France. If I use my basic guidebook of French, I receive nothing but kindness,” added a second user.
“Please teach us all of the etiquettes you have learned!” encouraged a third commenter.
The TikToker did make a follow-up video addressing the top mistakes, or “faux pas,” that tourists make while visiting Paris.
First, they smile too much! The French view smiles as an earned gift to another person. And, tourists are too punctual. Apparently, it is customary to arrive fifteen minutes late when invited to a French person’s home.
Another mistake is the “Irish goodbye.” In France, it is necessary to say goodbye to absolutely everyone at the gathering before leaving.
