She’s Not Making Her Best Friend Her Maid Of Honor, Even Though She Played That Role In Her Best Friend’s Wedding
A young woman has a best friend that she’s been close with since they were both back in college, and when her best friend got married, she was asked to be her best friend’s maid of honor.
As her best friend planned her big day, she was totally there for her. She helped her best friend with all the planning details and was her biggest cheerleader along the way.
She planned her best friend’s bachelorette trip and even paid for the entire thing too. When it came time for her best friend to pick a wedding dress, she hopped on a plane and flew right there.
“Several months before her wedding my boyfriend proposed and my friend started distancing herself from me,” she explained.
“She stopped texting me, responded vaguely whenever I asked about her wedding, and didn’t even invite me to her bridal shower.”
“I kept trying to reach out and see what was going on and didn’t get anywhere. Her wedding was last month and she basically acted as if our other friend was the maid of honor.”
“The bride had our other friend give a toast, was involved in all the wedding help and details. Again, I kept asking if anyone needed help and asked if I needed to do anything. The bride kept telling me no and I had a miserable time at her wedding and wished I wasn’t there.”
It’s sad that her relationship with her best friend got ruined before the wedding, and she was still without a clue as to why that even happened in the first place.
Despite not being on the best terms with her best friend, she asked her to have a role in planning her own wedding that will be happening soon.
Ulia Koltyrina – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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Every time she reached out to her best friend to invite her to do everything she did with her in regards to wedding planning, her friend always turned her down.
“Between this and how I was treated at her wedding, I am very hurt,” she said. “I thought this person was my best friend.”
Instead of asking her best friend to be her maid of honor, she decided to ask another good friend that she went to college with.
This other friend constantly makes sure that she is there when she needs her, and she’s a perfect friend.
When her best friend found out that she wasn’t asked to be the maid of honor, she was furious.
Her best friend feels it’s only fair that she be included in her wedding in the exact same way, but this poor bride-to-be wants nothing to do with her best friend.
“I knew this would happen but I just don’t want to deal with her anymore,” she continued. “I truly wish I could call her a good friend still but I have reached my limits and I can’t keep letting her treat me like garbage.”
“Things like this have been going on for years and I have ignored them for too long. I didn’t make my other friend maid of honor to be mean towards my married friend, she simply doesn’t deserve to be my maid of honor.”
Do you think it was wrong of her to ask her other friend to be her maid of honor instead of her best friend?
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