Her Dad Abandoned Her, And Now That He’s Marrying A Woman With 3 Young Girls, She Wants To Tell Her To Head For The Hills While She Still Can
A 21-year-old woman has an absolutely awful relationship with her dad, which is due to the fact that he just abandoned her as a kid.
Her dad is in his 40s, and she has not talked to him at all since she was 15-years-old. Her dad was always a terrible parent, and some of the things he did to her growing up still sting.
He would promise to visit her on Father’s Day, only to be a no-show. He would leave her alone every single evening when he was supposed to have her visit him.
He even picked up and moved to the other side of the country and kept that a secret from her for multiple months.
He also would take her things and hold them over her head, manipulate her, and treat her badly in general.
The very last time she spoke to her dad, he sent her a text to say that he thought her Christmas present never arrived as it looked like it got returned to him.
He only said that to her since he never bought her a present in the first place, and she felt no need to reply to that message.
He never said anything to her after that, so it has been 6 years since she has heard from her dad at all.
He never wishes her Happy Birthday, or Merry Christmas, or asks how she is doing in her life. She has no contact with him at all.
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She also recently learned that her dad owes $10,000 in child support still that he’s trying to get thrown out in court.
So it’s easy to see what kind of a guy her dad really is, and it’s not a stand-up one.
She felt the need to look up her dad though online, which she did, and after she realized he is about to marry a younger mom with three young girls, she wants to reach out to this woman and tell her to head for the hills before it’s too late.
“Anyways, I did a little Facebook sleuthing, and turns out he’s engaged to a younger woman with three(?) little girls,” she explained.
“I want to tell her to RUN while she still can and to not marry such an awful father for the sake of her girls.”
“I know it’s not my place but I think of those little girls often and that their soon-to-be stepfather has a daughter of his own blood that he abandoned.”
She wants better for these little girls; she doesn’t want them to have the same experience that she did.
She doesn’t want her dad to ruin all of their lives. A friend of her family’s confirmed to her that her dad is the same old person he always was and he hasn’t changed one bit, which has further fueled her fear.
Should she reach out to warn this woman about her dad, or leave it all be?
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