Her Friend Used To Date Her Fiancé, And When Her Friend Found Out About Their Wedding, She Wished Failure On Their Marriage
A 22-year-old woman met her 23-year-old fiancé back when they were both seniors in high school. They had an instant connection and even after graduation, their love for one another only grew.
She and her fiancé both started college, and she happened to have a roommate that she got to be really good friends with.
The very first time that her fiancé visited her at the dorms, she was shocked to see that her roommate clearly knew him.
Her roommate talked to her fiancé so much that day, that she later pulled her fiancé aside and wanted to know how he knew her roommate.
Apparently, her fiancé dated her roommate in high school before she had met him. Her fiancé insisted that he was on excellent terms with her roommate and he had no feelings for her though.
While her fiancé came clean to her about previously dating her roommate, her roommate didn’t say anything to her about it or how she knew her fiancé.
“Throughout college, she never told me about their past relationship, I never asked either,” she explained.
“She told me they were just old friends. She would talk about her first love to me a lot. She told me about how they met in middle school but started talking when they were in high school and how they dated all through freshmen to junior year, she would tell me how she thought that he was the man she was gonna end up marrying.”
She simply kept quiet and listened to her roommate, not wanting to make waves. She was aware that her roommate was talking about her fiancé the whole time.
Dmitry Tsvetkov – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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Not that long ago, she got engaged and then her roommate found out about her wedding. Her roommate began growing distant after hearing about the wedding.
A couple of weeks ago, she and her roommate hung out together with some of their mutual girlfriends, and her roommate kept going on and on about her first love, which is actually her fiancé.
“She told me she was heartbroken since he had an upcoming wedding, and that she felt so bad but she wished that his marriage ended on a horrible note so maybe they could have a chance again,” she said.
“I looked at her and straight up told her “wow, such a great friend you are, already wishing failure on my marriage.” I had had a few drinks and was incredibly blunt at this point.”
Every single one of their friends who were out with them that evening knew that her roommate had a relationship with her fiancé, but they all figured she did not know this secret.
Her roommate began screaming and crying at her after she confronted her, and then her roommate left.
“She texted me recently that if she had known I knew she wouldn’t have said anything,” she continued.
“She said that now she still felt betrayed as I knew he was her first love and I’m still marrying him, I got called a horrible friend and other things around that line.”
She doesn’t think is fair of her roommate at all, since she began seeing her fiancé before she started a friendship with her roommate.
On top of that, her roommate chose to keep silent about dating her fiancé. While she never would have picked her friendship with her roommate over being with her fiancé, she does feel terrible.
She knew all along that she was seeing the guy her roommate first fell in love with and clearly still loves, but she never revealed that to her roommate either.
“I’m a very sensitive person and I let people make me feel bad easily so I don’t know if it’s me being sensitive that’s trying to rationalize why she’s in the right unless she is,” she concluded.
Do you think she should have said something to her roommate or was it a good idea for her to keep quiet over the years?
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